Now Is The Time To Stand Up For Your Beliefs
No matter what your political affiliation, you have most certainly recognized that our country is in a tough spot right now
. The most pressing concerns we hear about in the media are over healthcare reform and the condition of the economy, but these are just the issues that happen to take center stage these days.
While our current president has expressed hopes to work across partisan lines, it seems that the reality is that party divisions are actually becoming fiercer. For the average conservative citizen, the possibility of a heated argument may keep you from speaking your mind in particular circles.
But now more than ever, it is important for us to be vocal about our beliefs. But being vocal does not necessarily have to be equated with being confrontational.
Instead, focus on a few tactics to be able to stand up for yourself and for what you truly believe in, especially if you normally have a difficult time speaking your mind.
First of all, you need to recognize that some people will, in fact, be intentionally disrespectful and even downright offensive. Try to avoid stereotyping the "other side," because of negative experiences with opinionated people. And, of course, avoid descending to their level by using slurs or insults.
For many people, avoiding intentional rudeness is fairly simple. But unfortunately, while you are trying to point out flaws in a certain point of view, you can easily insult someone indirectly. So stick to the "I messages," of good communication: "I think," "I believe," and so on, instead of the accusatory "you," messages.
Second, make sure you are having discussions at the correct time and place. All disagreements have the potential to turn into sour arguments, so avoid beginning one at work or at some other locale where you might be unable to take a break and cool off if things turn heated.
Third, try to present your viewpoints in a reasonable manner. That means providing support for your stances. It will be helpful to visit conservative news sites so that you know what's going on in the world and how it affects you and our society. Stick to the facts instead of mere emotion.
Finally, practice active listening skills. If you learn to truly consider another's point of you, you will certainly learn more and you will either be better equipped to respond with respect or you may even change your mind about certain topics.
Above all, it is important to develop courage to speak up when you don't agree with someone. But remember that it is never productive to be condescending or insulting. It takes practice to develop the tact necessary, but just keep trying.
by: Art Gib
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