Picking Up Girls The Right Way
Picking up girls is not a science, but it does take a little know-how and self-awareness
. The tips and tricks below can help you meet girls the right way:
- Have Confidence!
This is the most important thing to remember. Girls love guys who exude confidence. There is a fine line between confidence and being egotistical, so try to skirt that line. This is something that can not only make it easier to meet girls, but can also improve every aspect of your life, from work to school to family relationships.
- Look Your Best
Not many girls like the scruffy, messy type and the ones that do probably aren't the ones you want to attract anyway. Take the time to properly match your clothes and shoes. Make sure your hair looks nice and is combed or brushed. Girls notice these things. They think if you take your time putting yourself together then you probably do the same with the rest of your life.
- Eat Well and Stay in Shape
Being healthy and fit is definitely a something that attracts girls. Even if you are out of shape, try to wear clothes that are appropriate to your body shape. No tight pants if you have a gut, in other words.
- Don't Act Nervous
Try not to bite your nails or play with your hair. Nervous people make everyone around them nervous. If you are laid back, then chances are she will be too.
- Be Assertive
This is related to confidence, but really applies after you get a date with a girl. Choose where you are going to go eat or see a movie. Don't be wishy-washy. If she asks you where you want to go, give her options. Don't tell her that you don't know where to go either. Take charge; women love this.
- Converse Intelligently, but Watch Out!
Sounding smart is great, but you need to gauge how intelligent the girl you're talking to is. If she's talking about cheerleading don't start discussing quantum physics. Try to find things you have in common. There is nothing worse than awkward silence when you first meet someone. Say what comes naturally, but don't force topics. If it's the first time you have met someone, try to stay away from the topics of politics and religion.
- Compliment Her
Telling a girl she is pretty or that she looks good can be beneficial, but if she is really hot she will be used to hearing this all the time. Try complimenting something original, like her clothing choice or her shoes. If everyone tells her she looks good, your saying it will make no impression.
- Don't Act Desperate
Coming on too strong and making it apparent that you are searching for a girlfriend will make most girls leave. Try to act casual, as if you don't really care. Playing hard to get is a much bigger turn on than being desperate.
- Don't Worry, Be Happy
Don't get angry at the drop of a hat. It's very embarrassing for those around you, especially if you are on a date. Go with the flow. For example, if your food is cooked wrong on a date at a restaurant, just politely ask them to cook it right. Don't scream at the waiter and demand to see management. Doing this means you will probabl6y never see the girl you're with again.
- Get Turned Down with Class
Don't get upset if you get turned down by someone you are interested in. Crying or raising your voice will only make things worse. Also, do NOT ask a girl why she won't go out with you. This is annoying and by doing it you are only setting yourself up to get hurt. Take the no with grace and you never know, she might just change her mind because of it!
- No Pick-Up Lines
These lame supposed nuggets of wisdom are never a good idea, no matter how good you think yours is. Just speak honestly and naturally. The girl you're trying to woo will appreciate it.
- Let It Happen
Letting things develop naturally is the only way to have a successful relationship. Don't force things because it could end up ruining what could have been a good thing.
Picking Up Girls doesn't have to be a bad experience. The more you approach the situation at ease the better your chances of success.
by: Peter Mclucas
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