Pleasing Your Husband In Bed - Some Lovemaking Tips For You And Your Man
Indeed, it may not be too hard to find ways in pleasing your husband in bed - compared to him finding ways to make you reach orgasm
. Men can be easily satisfied when it comes to lovemaking except of course if he has problems with erection or other medical problems.However, finding the best ways in pleasing your husband and satisfying him in bed can make a lot of difference in your relationship. Men usually want variation when it comes to sex and finding great ways to pleasure him can be your first step to spark more passion into your relationship.
Here are some tips in pleasing your husband more and satisfying his sexual needs.
- Be in control. If you are one of the women who just lay still and wait for your husband to do everything during lovemaking, you may end up being a boring partner. Do not be afraid to tell and show your man what you feel. Be in control. Sometimes men love to be controlled in bed, and they want to feel that you want to make love to them.
- Initiate lovemaking. Aside from being responsive and taking control in bed, it is a turn-on for men to have their wives seducing them. That also makes them feel wanted and loved. Get rid of your inhibitions and be bold. Your husband would surely love to go home early if you send him an email of the things you want to do to him and if you tell him you will be waiting at the doorstep with your new lingerie on.
- Understand what he wants. Although many things that men want in bed are not quite appealing to women, you have to be considerate in giving pleasure if you want to receive one. Giving is indeed one good way in pleasing your husband in bed and one good way too in showing him that you care about him and you want him to be happy and satisfied. Don't forget to ask what he wants too. Learn talking dirty as this can be an effective tool in knowing what your partner really wants.
- Play with his vision. Dress not only to impress others but your husband too. Most women are so particular about what they wear to that party or to that gathering but don't even care what they wear to bed. Being appealing to your husband's eyes is also one important thing in pleasing your husband. Men are easily attracted to what they see, so if you want to please him in bed, get rid of that old oversized shirt and be seductive in bed.
- Don't make him guess what you want either. Men often find pleasure in seeing that their woman is also enjoying the night. They may even be looking for the right formula to give their woman orgasm but you have to help them too. Giving women orgasm is indeed one of the challenges of men when it comes to lovemaking and this can be made easier if you help him too. Instead of giving him confusing hints, tell him what you want and guide him. This is best done if you learn how to talk dirty but make sure you learn and master this art.
by: Carolyn Anderson