Recognising A Menopausal Wife

So you are in your forties, and you are wondering how you will know when your wife is about to enter the menopause

. Perhaps you haven't given it a second thought, well that's fine, but perhaps you need to think about it a bit.

Talking to friends you will discover, they too are beginning to be aware of this female phenomenon, but not much is being said by them probably due to ignorance on their part. You may have a dim memory of your mother or aunt who went peculiar, at a certain age, but you never thought any more of it. The time has come to discover what happens to a woman when she reaches a certain age

Even as a fairly dull male about these things, you will almost certainly have been aware that the regularity of your wife's periods has vanished. They don't seem to happen very often at all, but when they do, she seems to be in trouble with them. They are heavy, and take a long time to pass, or they are literally here today and gone tomorrow.

Probably you don't really understand that this is the first indication that the time for being able to conceive babies is almost over. There are hormonal changes, which can be dramatic, and are going to impact on the man of the house, though most men haven't the foggiest idea why.

Some things you will notice that are quite normal at this stage in your wife's life, which may alarm and worry you. Noticeably she will cry more, be angrier more often and complain about joint pain and stiffness. Whilst you will worry it isn't abnormal, you must live with it.

Your wife may put on weight especially around her tummy. It is sensible not to comment, as she will be more than aware of what is happening. Also be prepared for your wife to worry a whole lot more about seemingly unimportant things. This will seem strange because she wasn't like this at all before.

You may find your night's sleep is interrupted by your wife being very restless. Insommnia is a feature of the menopause, as is a degree of forgetfulness. If you rely on your wife remembering everything like family birthdays, then just relaise she may need reminding for the first time.

The cool calm woman you married may well get hot and flustered, with her cheeks literally going bright red, and her sweating profusely. In bed this will mean throwing off the covers, and during the day, even a cold winter's day opening all the windows. Then just as quickly as this happens she will complain of feeling chilly.

Guys we as males may not actually suffer from the menopause, despite the name. Perhaps it should be called womenopause. It is however our job to keep our loved one cheerful, and to be sympathetic, because we can play a huge role in helping her overcome this unpleasant time of life.

by: Colin Dexter

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