At the beginning the relationship was bland and no longer attract the attention of your heart
, then one way out taken was to break with your partner. But to say the word "end" is not an easy thing, especially if your partner still loves you.
However you still need to be able to do so inevitably from a more acute pain again do the best for you and for your spouse. But how to make her understand and can accept that you wish to separate from your spouse?
Set your heart
your spouse might not be decided just like that. Maybe your partner will give you many applications, anger or guilt. If you've set your heart then you must be convinced of your decisions and you should ignore the guilt. No need to regret or feel sorry because this will complicate your steps and prevent you to reach a new goal.
Find the Neutral Places
Many people who never think of a neutral places to convey the decision. Why you need a neutral place to convey the decision? This is because neutral venues will be able to facilitate you to "run away" if there is any discussion or debate that protracted. Do not do these things in your house because you can not run anywhere if you want to finish talking.
Do it quickly
to make a split decision is not an easy thing. You must be full consideration which may make you hesitate, so make your plans are delayed. That is why if you are already unanimous decision then do so immediately because if you delay you may return any doubts and your spouse thinks you are not serious. Especially, if you demonstrate a heavy heart to break this relationship. Your spouse will think can change your feelings and your decision.
Say It Is
Here, you need to avoid using clich words reasons like "I'm love you so much, but for now I'm want to be alone". It is very useless because a man will never understand such sentences. If you lose a sense of love for you or your partner has fallen in love with someone else then you need to say what it is. And your spouse will not argue about it. The opposite if you lie and eventually your partner know you lie then your partner will feel even more hurt.
Make an agreement
the next thing is how the continuation of your relationship and your partner after a break up? It's good if you and your spouse agree to remain on good terms. But if you are very eager "apart" from him fully so make an agreement that you will not return phone calls, short message or emails from your spouse when the relationship ended. If you respect your partner then your partner will stop disturbing you. Here, you need to seriously adhere to rules that you created yourself.