Second Chances - Giving Substantial Reasons To Save Your Marriage
It's not a surprise if only few relationships are successful - the road is not easy
. The very usual conflicts and arguments arising - man vs. man and man vs. himself. You can argue with yourself but who would've claim the damage or the success? It is something to do with cheating. How would you deal with yourself if the urge comes within you as well? However, there are a few who manage to deal with these conflicts.
What you'd started remains as it is. But, try to anticipate the effect it might bring to the future. You might caught off-guard if you won't plan ahead. Cheating could lead you to nowhere unless you'll put a sense of direction after it was done.
Have you asked yourself why someone could be so unfaithful despite the love they feel for their partner? Would you believe that one could play around while they're already taken? What's the reason behind doing these things when you had already received love in a couple of ways from someone so dear to you? Don't just wait for the answers, find them and make up your mind.
Don't make it a big deal on giving another chance. In your own perspective, do you think one mistake is enough to dismiss your marriage? It might be a little bit difficult to justify giving your cheating ex a second chance now that he or she has been caught red handed but there are quite a few solid reasons to give your love a second chance to blossom and inspire the world around you.
1)One foolishness is not a good reason to give up. Learn to digest the reality. We are subject to worldly things; it is not that easy to get away with fool's gold. It is a challenge we need to face to make us one better person. For the marriage to work, you must also work for it. Make a habit of falling in love everyday by unraveling beautiful things that would make you fall in love with and share it with the one you love. Winning is when we remain intact no matter what it takes.
2)If you believe that he's someone you want to grow old with, hold on to it. Writing a story with a happy ending is not that easy what more if you are acting it real-time.
3)You can't avoid being hurt; however, it won't hurt you that much if you are not in love. Love hurts when you feel love; it doesn't if you don't. That's how it goes. Love chooses no one - good people or bad.