Secrets of Female Sexuality
Secrets of Female Sexuality
Secrets of Female SexualityIt is hard to imagine that at the beginning of last century sexual attraction was considered if not immoral then definitely something forbidden, and about third of all women were having sex without feeling any attraction to their spouse. This was the order of things until the "sexual revolution", which irrevocably won a victory in the middle of last century. People began to talk about sex and finally women found out about the existence of such things as libido (sexual attraction) and sexuality and finally understood that pleasures of the flesh have nothing immoral about them. Nowadays 75% of women who consider themselves happy have sex regularly and receive pleasure from it. After all, libido is sexual energy. The more and better we are charged up with it, the happier our life is. We are full of strength and optimism, luck accompanies us in everything we do, and we feel capable of moving mountains and do way more than those whose "sexual batteries" are dead.
For several years the British scientists have been researching the sexuality of twins and as a result they came to an interesting conclusion. In spite of the fact that libido is a very delicate issue and can be influenced by virtually anything (abusing alcohol and cigarettes, quality and quantity of sexual intercourses and many other factors), the strength of the desire is inherited and is formed while still in mother's womb.
The female sexual hormone estrogen plays a significant role in the degree of sexual desire. In order to stir up the pleasant arousal, it has to get into a strictly defined part of hypothalamus (one of the portions of the brain). Otherwise, a woman can first of all become indifferent to sex, and second of all, start displaying an increased aggressiveness to the representatives of the opposite sex. So in that case, even if a woman has a normal level of estrogen in her blood but the brain does not identify it, her libido will turn out to be zero. This discovery will allow doctors to approach the treatment of female sexuality dysfunction from a completely new angle.
Recently it has become popular to include foods based on soy into our daily diets, which are believed to rejuvenate the whole body. Yes, soy is rich in unique isoflavones, which resemble the female sexual hormones in their effect. Having entered the body, they replenish the lack of estrogen, as a result of which the skin becomes resilient, the hair becomes brilliant and stops to fall out, and the body acquires its former slenderness. All of this sounds great except for one" but" that hasn't even been mentioned until recently. It turns out that phytohormones (also known as plant hormones) change the function of reproductive endocrine system and lower the libido by 70-80%. So we wouldn't recommend eating soy products for breakfast, lunch and dinner in the hopes of eternal youth. It is sufficient to eat soy three times a week and not to exceed the dosage specified in the notes on the product.
It is an interesting fact that the reduced degree of sex drive is dangerous for women's health. First of all, sexual coldness and as a result the lack of sex and orgasm lead to infectious and inflammatory illnesses of reproductive organs. And secondly, sexually unsatisfied women try to get rid of neurosis, depression and apathy for years. If a woman's libido is reduced, her vagina starts to produce the substance, the impact of which inevitable strips the man of his desire.
There will always be reasons for desire to cool down. And in 99% of the times the frigidity or female impotency does not have anything to do with it. There are various factors that negatively affect the female sexual drive. First one is stresses and stereotypes. Life in megapolis, stressful job, problems in the family, poor first sexual experience, lack of spiritual closeness with the partner and lack of self-confidence are to be blamed for the decrease of sexual desire. The amount of sexual energy also depends on presence of money. Even the thought about the worsening of the financial conditions provoke a serious fall of the libido. Sexologists warn us that while money is the main burden on our mind, we shouldn't even dream about our sexual potential increasing. The second factor is gynecological problems. Medical professionals state that women with low libido are almost never completely healthy. They have at least 2-3 gynecological illnesses, which require urgent treatment. Inflammation or swelling of the pelvic organs, ovaries dysfunction, sexually transmitted diseases, urinary tract infections... All of these can influence the sensitivity of intimate zones and even turn sex into painful and excruciating process. Age has a lot to do with sexual desire. First of all, after 45 years of age the majority of women have the level of testosterone (one of the hormones of sexuality) lower by almost a quarter. And second of all, the age-related changes in the body become the reason for dryness of the vaginal mucosa, the level of dampness of which is in direct correlation with the libido. Taking hormonal contraceptives, antidepressants, having a baby and breastfeeding slow down the production of testosterone, which our libido needs like air. The lack of orgasm is the last factor we will cover. Indeed, if there is no light at the end of the tunnel then why go through it? The arousal, which does not lead to release, forms a strong sexual dissatisfaction and lowering of the libido.
Unfortunately, a female version of male pillsthatenhance sexual desire has not been invented yet although hgh has shown some dramatic improvements and continues to be the topic of discussion for probable rejuvenation of the sexual libido of women. Scientists are convinced that just in a few years the pharmacies will be overflowing with nasal sprays and patches to increase female libido with hgh. But if you don't want to wait until industrial giants birth the new revolutionary invention, go to England. They sell a special patch at their sex shops. Although to be honest it has been denied a serious title of a "medication". The secret of its effect is a pleasant aroma with dopamines, which stimulate the production of endorphins, hormones of pleasure, which in return charge up the female libido.
Libido is prone to changes. Even happy couples with great sexual life can experience a slight cooling down. And it is absolutely normal. The important thing is to not allow it to grow into a glacier. In order to stimulate the libido start flirting more - "non-contact sex" excites and makes the blood boil. Try out the effectiveness of erotic massage. It tones up the nervous system, increases the level of testosterone and hence improves the libido. Don't forget to use essential oils/aphrodisiacs. Play erotic games with your partner, look for new erogenous zones on each other's bodies, do anything to achieve pleasure. Believe it, your loved one will only be happy because of this. Psychologists claim that a satisfied woman raises her man's self-appraisal. And self-appraisal as we all know affects not only the social status and luck but also health.
Sexuality can be fed. And not by oysters with champagne or strawberries with whipped cream - these recognized aphrodisiacs are good for erotic dinner only. Sexologists advise to bring useful changes into our daily diets. In order to raise the libido put your stakes on vegetables, herbs (especially celery, parsley, dill), fruit, rice, whole wheat pasta and red dry wine (no more than a glass a day!). Minimize the amount of other alcoholic beverages and sweets. This diet will help you maintain your hormonal balance. And as we know a healthy body has healthy desires. Some dietitians consider honey to be the best food for sexual restoration and prescribe 2-3 teaspoons of this fragrant product a day to revive the desire.
According to medical specialists, if you do not want to forget what it means to have sexual desire, you should have sex regularly. Nothing stimulates the female libido as regular practice at least twice a week. However, the absence of a man should not be an obstacle when it comes to maintaining your sexuality in good shape. We hope that your sexual libido continues to increase and we think that the sexual revolution is far from over.