Seduction Secrets To Building Your Self Confidence Up So You Attract More Women - Part 3

Author: Jay Sullivan

Author: Jay Sullivan

There are lots of ways to build your self confidence up. You can dress good, work out, even have a new haircut. You need to try and always look your best wherever you go. Even a little bit of alcohol can help build courage and confidence!

But, there is another way to build confidence, and that's called affirmations.Using affirmations can be very powerful. They can be used in everyday life to achieve certain goals AND to affect the way you feel. Affirmations can mostly reflect the world you really want to live in.

Affirmations are statements you repeat to yourself in your head over and over again, until they become embedded into your subconscious mind and become a belief. Here is how you do it: you can write the affirmation down on a piece of paper, or simply make one up inside your head. Try to think of something that you really want to feel.

The important part when making up an affirmation is that you make sure the words you use are powerful words, and also that they reflect the present and not the future. You don't even have to believe in the affirmation at this moment in time, because in the end it WILL become your belief!

When making up affirmations, you need to try and steer away from negative words. Most people when using affirmations make up statements such as I do not feel anxiety when approaching a woman.

The only bad thing about that affirmation is the use of the word Anxiety, simply because this is a negative word.

Your affirmations should really be short and straight to the point. Try not to use big lengthy words, as this will confuse and clutter your mind, and take too long to work.

I highly suggest that you also only use one affirmation at a time too, or at least until you've got the desired outcome. I personally will only use one affirmation at a time because it brings faster results.

When using affirmations, make sure you repeat them to yourself over and over again, as much as possible. It's not uncommon for me to repeat mine at least a hundred times a day!Persistence is very important. You may not get the desired result straight away, but do not give up on it! Stick with it and it really will be worth it in the

long run.

When you are using affirmations, you will find that you will begin to adapt to what you are repeating in your head, and eventually it will become a fact. Take for instance if your affirmation is something like Women find me very attractive and I am a good looking man.

Over time, and if you stick with that affirmation, you will eventually believe that statement to be true, and gain the confidence when approaching women. Women find a man with confidence very attractive!

It's also very important to point out at this time aswell that you can't influence or affect other people by saying affirmations in your head. BUT, you certainly can affect other people by your actions!

When you are in the right frame of mind, and you live out your affirmations, your actions will change, and this in return reflects on others! Affirmations build your confidence up, which in turn conquers your anxious thoughts and feelings.

This isn't the only method you should use to conquer these anxious thoughts though. Throughout this 5 part series I will show you even more ways to banish negativity and anxiety for good, and put your confidence levels at an all time high!

Before we move onto the other methods, let me quickly explain a few things. An affirmation you will want to be using are one's that are directly involved with approaching women. They will be your initial thoughts, so it builds your confidence up. It will change your inner thoughts, so they directly mirror on your outer world.

Naturally, you don't want to be repeating these affirmations when you are approaching women.

You simply repeat your affirmations to yourself in your own time, in a quiet location away from any distractions, so it gives you time to absorb what you are repeating.

A few examples of affirmations you can use are:

I am a confident person and fully in control

I am confident and charming around the women I meet

I am very much appreciated and respected

I can accomplish anything I want when I put my mind to it

I am a passionate and incredibly handsome man

I have absolutely everything I need in life

I look good, and I feel good

These are just examples, and you can of course make your own one's up. Your affirmations don't have to be directly involved with meeting women. You can use whatever it takes to build your confidence up.

Obviously it's much better if you use affirmations that reflect you and your personality, so they get absorbed easier. Affirmations are an extremely powerful tool when used in the right way, and the best thing about them is the fact that they don't have to be used just for the approaching women side of things.

Affirmations can be used in virtually every aspect of your life. They will help you achieve anything that you want!

This is part 3 of a 5 part guide. You can get the other parts from our site below.

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