Sexual Relations In Marriage Only
Chapter Five
Chapter Five
Sexual Relations In Marriage Only
This topic came from for some reason; my past when I had sexual relations outside of marriage and I know the difficulties and hardships young people go through; because my first time was before I was twelve years old and I prayed that this never happened but it did and I found the notes my girl friend and I passed between us in class to see what step to take after school.
God must of wanted all this to happen; because it did happen and I'm not proud of it; more sad by it; because her and I offended Our Heavenly Father; at the time we were not thinking of Him but of us.
Now, I am changed and studying to become a priest; at least doing my best at home while the bishop and vocation director decide if I have waited enough or join up and earn the clothing of a begger; the Franciscan Habit.
Some kids today say they could handle a sexual relationship but no kid can. I matured before all my class; when our fifth grade class put on a play for Martin Luther King Jr. my voice went from high to low; now I can say that famous line from Johnny Cash, "Hello I'm Johnny Cash" and it sounds like him; that is how low my voice has gotten. No matter how fast your voice changes and everything happens; you are not ready for a sexual relationship.
A sexual relationship is something that is to be special; something between Man and wife on their wedding night and all through their marriage to create life. I know I have two sides yelling at me; those who did have sex out of marriage who had children and are still in high school or starting college; then the second group of people are the homo-sexuals living in sin.
I am sad to say; three people I love dearly; three people I consider family and two are; the third person is my ex from fifth grade; she said she got engaged to a man and they had a child together; my two cousins; both girls and both in college; maybe a year or two out of high school.
There could be others I know; but I just saw my other cousin yesterday when my parents and I left Dairy Queen and headed forthe day of shopping.She seemed happy and joyful; as she should be and glad shechose life; glad all three chose life; but that does not mean what they did is right. Because it is notright at all.
When you take the gift of yourself out of it for your spouse at your wedding night; you take the gift of surprise out of it; because people today want to do a test drive to see if theyhave chemistry and so theyhave sexual relations to find this out.
They maybe thinking about the other person but mostly they are thinking about their own self.
How can they be thinking of their own self when they have sex with a person they love?
Love, ha! That is not love. If you are not married and having sex; that is not Love. It is Sin; mortal sin; which is grave matter. One mortal sin on your soul when you die; you won't like the place where you sent yourself.
If you truly love each other; you would not send each other to hell by having sex outside of marriage; not even live together. If you are homo-sexual and having sex and when you have a union done; still Mortal Sin.
A homo-sexual is to remain single, chaste and celibate for their entire life; until they can be made heter-sexual once again. Then they can marry; but not when they are homo-sexual.
Sex is not a game, it is not a sport or something you do for fun or relaxation. Sex is something Man and Wife do to create life; as God has commanded them to do; to fill the earth with their off-spring.
That is why I pray I could of watched Fr. Corapi sooner than when I did and watched EWTN; because if I knew it existed; I'm sure my good friend and ex girl friend would be better off and I bet still pure too; still be virgins I bet.
We have so much filth on the tv today and people reporting news, doing shows and reporting sports; we have to care for our eyes; to keep ourself pure the best we can. Purity and Virginityis the greatest gift one could give their spouse at their wedding night.
When you are married; that is only when you can have a sexual relationship with your spouse. Because both of you can handle it and because both of you are commanded to have relations to fill the earth with off-spring.
Do not think you can't sin with your husband or wife; when you start to use one another or both as objects; then you have committed mortal sin. Give each other freely to each other; not use each other.
If you kids love one another and think you are to be together; guess what; try talking to each other and talking to each other's family; but do not have sex. If you truly love one another; you won't send each other to hell for being selfish and trying to use each other.
God bless
Sexual Relations In Marriage Only
By: Andy
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