Shattered Relationships, Breaking Up, And A Sure Fire Plan To Save Love!

If you have experienced a great love or a marriage breaking up you know it is one of the most devastating things anyone will ever go through

. Suddenly the future looks dark and lonely, and you can't sleep or eat, and every waking minute is spent thinking about the one you loved and lost. This is grieving and the sadness can last a long time, but if you can just quiet your mind for a minute, you might begin to see a little sliver of light at the end of the tunnel. True love can often be saved!

When you are in love, breaking up is the farthest thing from your mind. Now that it has happened, you will need to decide if this is true love or not, and get ready for what is ahead. Ask yourself this question "Is saving my relationship the most important thing in my life? Am I open to relationship help even if it's going to take some time and effort on my part?" If the answer is yes to both of these questions, then read on, for I have some very powerful and effective information for you.

In romantic relationships, taking a break can often be a blessing in disguise. Yes, love breaking up is painful, but you can take this opportunity to look closely at your relationship. Whatever the reasons for the break up it's time for some self reflection and an honest look at your part in the break up. Even if your first reaction is that none of it had anything to do with you, be willing to look closer because it is never completely one sided. What you discover may very put you on the path to healing love.

This time of self reflection will keep you from too much contact with your ex and at this point this is crucial! Even though you may really want to call and text and "just happen" to show up where your ex is, don't do it! Too much contact too soon can destroy your chances as a couple. While you are taking time to self reflect, your ex will also have time and space to do the same. Never forget that something powerful brought you together and struggling through a break up can often remind couples what it was that attracted them so strongly in the first place. In relationships, breaking up and then making up is a magic that happens every day so don't lose hope!

by: Kristin Alexander

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