She's wrong, I'm right: Couples and Creative Visualization

She's wrong, I'm right: Couples and Creative Visualization

Men are independent beasts by nature and nurture. We are naturally and socially engineered to self-sufficient beings. This trait that serves us so well in many of our relationships, can become a liability when considering our most cherished intimate relationship. As men, it is easy for us to think of the things we need our partner to be. We each have a list and if someone doesn't make the cut, we have no problem avoiding that relationship.

One important thing for us to remember is that just as we have expectations of our partner, our partner has certain expectations of us. Creative Visualization can help us project, create, and sustain our partner's bliss in this area. Here is an exercise that will help you gain both insight and intimacy within your relationship.

Step One:

Have your partner select their favorite photos of you as a couple. Let them select at least five; each from a separate occasion.

Step Two:

Once you have the photos, sit with your partner and have them tell you what they really like about the images. Write down any key comments or common themes in the photos.

Step Three:

Make a slide show, create a movie in Animoto, or make an album with them for your screen saver. Whatever you have to do to get those images in front of you a few times a day. Keep them up for at least a month to program those happy images into your subconscious.

What if your partner's images aren't your happiness? Take pleasure in the fact that these are moments cherished by your partner and you were able to provide them with that happiness. Also, you can take turns selecting photos and trade off creations. Typically, partners have different talents and can both create things that amaze one another.

Take the time to work on something for your partner. It is truly amazing what us humans can come up with when we look at creativity. Our gifts to one another, using our creativity, can be the most powerful and touching. Whether it's a meal, song, drawing, painting, photograph, app; the possibilities are limitless. When we tap into this portion of our being, we ascend to our highest, most powerful, and natural selves.

So while maybe you weren't right before, if you complete this exercise, I am confident that at very least she will let you believe you were!

Here is an example of what can be done.

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