Signs To Look For To Tell You He's Cheating
Signs To Look For To Tell You He's Cheating
The other day, I had a woman email me and ask for a list of signs that would "tell me if he's cheating on me." This woman had been having a very uneasy feeling about her husband, but I suppose she needed a concrete list to help her either confirm her suspicions or tell her that she wasn't seeing anything that should cause concern. I'll give you the list that I gave her in the following article.
But, I should tell you that if you are seeing behavior that you don't see in this list, that doesn't mean that you're wrong. Everyone's situation is unique and every man will react differently and cover his tracks in the way that he thinks is more likely to help keep his secret. Typically I tell women that if something is bothering them, they should keep their eyesopen and follow up on their suspicions without being obvious about it.
He Suddenly Starts Worrying About His Looks: Often when men become comfortable in a relationship, they lay off on trying so hard. You're oftencomfortable enough for both of you to see each other in ratty sweats or old college tees. So of course, it should give you pause when the guy who doesn't mind going to great clips for his hair now gets himself a trendy hair cut or starts using more styling products. A guy who buys new underwear or tries a new style should definitely raise suspicion as should someone who starts buying trendier or younger looking clothes or who begins attempting to lose weight or color his hair.
He's Attentive To His Car: The guy who used to have toys or drive through bags in his car now wants it very clean. He doesn't want any signs pointing back to you or family life. And, he's taking his new interest in his carbecause he wants to impress her. Men will often usually keep their car extra clean when they are cheating because they want to get rid of evidence ofher when you're around and evidence of you when she's around.
Secrecy About His Body (Not Showering Or Dressing In Front Of You): Many women tell me that when their boyfriends or husbands were cheating, they would stop leaving the door open when they showered or were getting dressed. Often, this is because they have marks on them from their encounters will the other woman.
He Turns His Phone On Vibrate Or He Turns It Off: There may have been a time in the past when your husband kept his cell phone on when you were together. He had nothing to hide then. But, when a man is up to something, he'll often turn the phone off or have it vibrate rather than ring. This way, he can excuse himself and go somewhere private to listen to his message or retrieve his text.
He Starts Texting With More Frequency: Many men resist texting (especially if they aren't teenagers.) Most see this is a huge waste of timebecause they'd rather just pick up the phone than sitting there struggling to type with their large hands. But, sometimes a man doesn't want you to hear what he's saying, so he'll text instead, thinking he can just delete the text and the evidence later (you can retrieve these if you know what you're doing.)
He's Absent Or Critical Or He's Picking Fights: Often, men who are cheating will try to justify it by drawing their attention to your faults. To that end, he'll start to pick fights with you or criticize you about being too clingy, needy, or overbearing. He may use these things as an excuse to stay away more or he may make up excuses about needing to work or to take care of other obligations.
Slipping Up On Seemingly Unrelated Things: Maybe your man told you that he and so and so went out for so and so's birthday. But, when you see so and so's wife, you learn that there was no birthday. At first you may think that your husband just meant someone else or misspoke. But, if these little slip ups are happening with more and more frequency, you have to wonder if your man isn't having trouble keeping his lies straight.
I was in this same situation a short time ago. My heart knew that he was cheating, but my head didn't want to acknowledge it. After thinking on it for a long time, I decided that I really wanted to know the truth, no matter what that truth was. I learned how to get concrete information and proof that my husband thought that he had hid and erased. Once I presented this to him, he had no choice but to come clean. You can reada very personal story at http://catch-the-cheating.com/
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