Social Communication - 3 Top Secret Attraction Switches Males Look For In Females
In all social communications, the first 3 seconds will determine the first impressions
which will determine the resistance in acceptance for the next 3 hours. This rule is predominantly obvious especially in male's attraction towards females.Imagine.
A young, pretty and young female wearing clothing which speaks the curvy figure of hers is walking down the street within your eye trajectory. Your eyes gaze pasts her, suddenly, she looks troubled, turns to find you and asks for the time. Not wearing a watch, you take your phone out and easily tell her the time in hopes that you will have a chance to have a decent conversation with her.
Now imagine this.
A poorly dressed, old, unhealthy, balding female who is untidy, unwashed and has clothing which is torn comes up to you and asks for the time. Your repulsion switches have been flipped, and you ignore the person and carry on with your life.
Notice the difference? Care to tell me that first impressions doesn't matter? What causes these switches? These switches are known as the attraction switches which are built into us. There are very different types of attraction switches in both male and females.
This article focuses on 3 main switches males look for in Females.
1. Health Indicators
A female who has bad hygiene, unhealthy and who does not score high in terms of being physically attractive will not be attractive to males. This is seemingly obvious as males subconsciously will determine whether or not he is attracted to females in the first 3 seconds of exposure of spotting a female.
Unlike female switches, the male attraction switch, predominantly in the health indicators, males look for healthy females which is to provide the ability to survive and replicate.
For the female sense, the health indicators will determine whether or not she has high replication value.
Unlike females, who look for sustainability and social value, this is the main key attraction switch that all males look for in females. Regardless of what one would say.
2. Vague interest in Communication
A female who portrays vague interest, being in the know, but not knowing everything, is intelligently attractive to men. Mild subtle fascinations in men will attract men and draw fascinations.
Men generally are creatures of competition and challenge. Their instincts are drawn towards risky and troubled waters. In being a person who is vague and who is able to mildly arouse interest men, will exponentially flip the attraction switches.
3. Replication Value
Unlike females, who look for both survival and replication value, men generally tends to believe that survival value is provided solely by themselves. Hence, their natural attraction switch is catered mainly towards just replication value.
This means that attributes, such as beauty, health and youth, will attract a man to a female. A female who is old and fat, unless the man has an extreme fetish, will not flip the attraction switch without a considerable amount of investment of time and understanding.
Summary
Generally, the men's attraction switches towards females are somewhat lesser and more straight-forward as compared to females switches towards men. Generally, men look for health, youth and beauty.
This attributes draw towards the main and probably the switch which causes 80% of attraction in all communication between males towards females. Understanding what causes attraction will attribute and support your life by creating more opportunities for finding future relationships.
Understand that learning social communication is not about being able to date the most popular or beautiful people in the world, but rather, it is about creating a long lasting life which is full of opportunity.
For that, you must fight for it.
Towards Your Success,
L. Aaron
by: Aaron Leow