Stages Of A Break Up - How To Be Happy For Life After Making Up
Author: JD Dean
Author: JD DeanThe stages of a breakup also include how you plan to stay together once you make up. Okay, we are assuming you are successful in winning back your ex and if you're using T W Jackson's Magic Of Making Up system then you are giving yourself every chance.
The stages of a breakup include the initial split, the feeling one cannot go on without their ex while resentment and moving on will come if a person is unsuccessful in making up. But what if you get back together...are you going to make the same mistakes again.
This is why The Magic Of Making Up system is so powerful. It not only looks at the repairing of a relationship but most importantly, the maintenance. In fact, couple will improve their current relationship by simply using the tips given in the book.
Your ex has taken you back because they see a change in you. The reason you were dumped in the first place may may have been due to your partner simply getting bored with your habits and routine. Let's have a look at some of the maintenance steps which can help you right now.
Tip #1.. Put fun back into your relationship. Remember when you first met. You more than likely spent a lot of time together having having fun. Re-introduce this back into your relationship.
Tip #2.. While being apart, you may have improved your grooming techniques and the way you dress. Be careful not to abandon these simply because you think the job is done when you get back together.
Tip #3.. During the reconciliation period, you would have gone out on regular dates again. This ties in with the fun aspect but when you're re-united, make at least one night a week a date night.
Tip #4.. Add surprises to your relationship. For example, leave love notes for your partner, send her flowers occasionally or buy him tickets to a football game. Buy them a gift occasionally without there having to be an occasion to do it.
Tip #5.. Make sure you find up to an hour with each other every day. Really be genuine in wanting to know how your partner's day was and share your experiences as well.
Tip #6.. In stages of making up, the split is usually caused following constant arguing over issues. In your reconciliation phase, avoid dredging up any of these old issues. You've both made a fresh start with fresh ideas and plans. Leave the past where it belongs - in the past.About the Author:
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