Christmas time can be tough on people who have problems in their marriages. For men like you who are dealing with a cheating wife it can be particularly brutal. There is a lot of uncertainty, anger, and pain that you're facing on top of holidays that are often stressful in the best of circumstances. Combine all these things with a worldwide economy that is volatile on the best of days here lately and you have a recipe for disaster on your hands. What if I were to tell you that it's possible to really sweeten the deal and actually survive Christmas with your cheating wife?
It's true. You really can survive Christmas even though your wife is cheating on you. Even better, you can get your wife to stop cheating and save your marriage if you're interested in doing this at all.
A cheating wife is difficult for the average man to just get over. Many men have been taught to believe that cheating or being cheated on is a marriage ender but nothing could be further from the truth. Many marriages survive cheating and go on to be long and happy marriages.
It may not seem like it at the moment but your marriage can survive this and even be stronger as a result.
But, how do you get through each day just to survive this Christmas when the pain is so raw but neither of you really have anywhere to go to escape the pain and deal with the holidays apart?
You start by agreeing to put this behind you for the holidays. You want to focus on the reason for the holidays and spending time with friends and family rather than problems in the marriage. This is not the same thing as sweeping it under the rug. It's just about dealing with the problem on your terms and when it is a little more convenient.
While you're enjoying that time with friends and family take the opportunity to look at your wife and see her through the same eyes that fell in love with her and wanted her to marry you in the first place.
Once you remember all the reasons you fell in love with your wife, make an effort to remind her of all the reasons she fell in love with you. Work to make this the most memorable holiday season of your marriage for the two of you, for good reasons, and see if this particular spirit of the season isn't catching!