Talking On The Phone Without Boring A Woman

So, you were able to score a woman's phone number and now you are looking at it and thinking

, what am I going to say to her? As hard as it might be to try and get a woman to give you her digits, sometimes getting past that first conversation is actually a little bit harder. You know that first impressions do matter and this is going to be a first impression of sorts. She may already have met you, but that first time that you talk to her when it's just you and her and the phone can say a lot about where things are going to lead up to. If you are really boring or uninteresting to talk to, she might begin to think twice about wanting to have a date or any more conversations with you again. That would be a bad thing and it certainly is not something that you would want to happen. Well, there are some tips that I know of that could help you out with this problem.

When you feel like you have nothing at all to say to a woman, it can make you feel uncomfortable and it can make her feel the same way. Comfort is one of the first steps to really building a bond with a woman, so you can't make her feel uncomfortable and expect for her to feel like she is really attached to you. So, how does a guy go about talking on the phone with a woman and not coming across as being boring?

1. You should have a few things already in mind to talk about before you call her up.

Being prepared with at least a few things to say to a woman is generally a good idea. I don't mean that you need to look at a conversation with a woman as being like an interview that you need to rehearse. I just mean that you are a lot more likely to feel at ease when you have a few topics that you can go to when there are those silent moments and you know that you should say something to her.

2. You should learn to ask a woman questions that she wants to answer.

It's hard to feel comfortable on the phone with a woman when you feel like you have to do all of the talking. Taking that approach is not really the way that you want to go. It's also not the way that you need to go. What you can do is to come up with some fun questions that you can ask a woman. These are going to be things that she would want to answer, not private matters that she wants to avoid talking about. Doing this, you take some of the pressure off of yourself when you are on the phone.

3. Don't feel like you need to talk for a certain period of time.

Sometimes men will come up with this idea that there is a certain number of minutes that they have to talk to a woman and so, they drag things out. It's much better to keep it short than to drag it out. Coming up with an arbitrary number of minutes that you feel like you have to use up in order to have a good conversation is really rather silly.

4. If this is the first time you are calling her, avoid the dirty talk.

Coming across like a guy who just wants to talk dirty on the phone when you have just met a woman is also usually a bad choice to make. Sure, there is a chance that you might be able to pull a number from a woman who would enjoy that right away, but most are not going to be that type. If you want to play the odds, it's best to refrain from any dirty talking he first time that you call her up.

by: Lucas Gray

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