The 5 Best Tips To Know Your Partner Better
You maybe in a relationships right now, or still single but have a potential guy
in mind; there are days when our loved ones just seem distant or drift away from us. This "drift" happens to all couples and even people dating who have been seeing each other for a while. Sometimes, we just keep guessing or sometimes ask: "Who is this guy?"; now that could pose as a potential problem for you.
Here are 5 tips to help you to get to know and reconnect with your partner better:
1. Share memories from your past. Sharing memories is a good way to spend time together with your guy and at the same time a great way to bond! Unfortunately though, some couples just don't do this. To make it more interesting, instead of just looking at pictures then you could play a game. Using small pieces of paper both of you will write down your dreams, memories from when you had your first memory until the present day. It could be your best, worst, most embarrassing memories. When you have done so, place all of them in a container or hat then take turns drawing out from the hat. You'll be surprised to find out, maybe at one point you have shared a similar memory. By doing this simple game you will feel more closer to your partner.
2. Go on a sex fasting. Meaning abstinence for a short while or until both of you can hold it in. While sex is one of the greatest things to bring a couple together, doing non-sexual things ca be too. The reason for this "sex fast" is that both of you can discover what your relationship is even without physical intimacy, now you can simply focus on your emotional aspects. You'll be able to tell if there's a difference on whether if your relationship would still go strong even with the absence of sex, you'll be able to see it in a short while. On the other hand, having a "sex fast" doesn't mean that you can't have fun- try to be creative.
3. Play a trivia game about yourselves. This is another fun way to find out more about your guy. On pieces of paper each of you need to write down 25 questions about yourselves. The topic could be anything, from your favorite food, to your pet peeve, blood type, where you went to college, anything that you think your partner already knows about you. Play the game by taking turns asking questions , you can use any fun currency that you desire; candy, cash, etc. The one with the most correct answers wins- and is off the hook from dish washing duties for a week.
4. Take up an interest or hobby together. Both of you can find a new hobby that neither has explored but share the same interest. This could be a pottery class, cooking class, a new sport, exploring and trekking, etc. Sharing a new experience together lets you see your partner in a different angle, and is a refreshing way to give both of you a boost.
5. Engage in each other's passions. Relationships sprout from friendship, and friendship mostly relies on the commonalities. While it is good that each of you have your own independent pursuits, it's also healthy if you be interested in your partner's interests and passions as well. Take time to know more about your guy's favorite pastimes; either golf, football, wine, etc. so both of you can at least connect with each other on these topics and he'd feel more comfortable sharing his love with you rather than get all those blank trivial stares when you can't seem to understand what he's talking about.
Spend time together and nurture your friendship, focus on all the positive aspects and continue nurturing each other- and even knowing and uncovering yourself more with the help of your partner. If you think you don't know your partner well enough, then be honest about yourself. Sometimes some characteristics, traits or attitudes come out when people start to feel comfortable in a relationship or with someone they really like. So for you to stop guessing about your partner, it's time to take this issue head-on.
by: Olivia Hamilton
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