The First Steps In How To Get My Ex Back
If you are reading this and have lost your ex you have come to the right place
. There are three steps that you will need to do in your plan of how to get my ex back.Step one
Stop communicating with your ex completely. No calling, no text messaging, no filling up the voicemail, or any other of the various ways you can get in touch with your ex. In beginning your plan of how to get my ex back this first step may seem strange but it is essential.
Step two
You need to find the origin of the breakup. Spend a lot of time on the step. Really study your relationship and the breakup to pinpoint where problems started. If you think the problems started in the last month, look over the last year. You will almost always find the problem is much earlier than you originally thought.Spend a lot of time to really pinpoint where this happened.
Step three
Now that you have isolated the real basis for your breakup you can now make a plan on how to recontact your ex.
The minimum you should spend on this step is one week. If not, utilize the rest of that week in making a plan of re-contacting your ex. It is vital you do not rush into this. The key point of this step is to understand your responsibility for the breakup.
You should have an upbeat mind-set when you speak to your boyfriend/girlfriend, being happy and carefree. You really need to be lighthearted about this. This should be a casual connection. See how it goes. If you are on the right path continue. If not, redo step two. If step two looks good, you can try a new step three, but step two is usually the problem.
Your opening moves in your plan of how to get my ex back are these three steps.
by: T. Reilly