The Result of Divorced Individuals and Their Children
The Result of Divorced Individuals and Their Children
Going through the process of having your marriage dissolved and deciding to live separate lives from someone that you have been through all these years is not an easy to place to be at. The couple will have a lot of issues that will be affected and changed during the course of time.
Individually and as a couple, they will have to face inevitable changes while they go through the divorce and after the dissolution has been granted. The effects of divorce may be different from one couple to another, although the categories may be the same. Psychological, emotional and economical aspect of an individual's life will most certainly be affected by the dissolution.
One or both of them may feel that they were misrepresented in the process of legal separation in court. They may realize that they have been aggravated by the co-parental settlement to their children. In economic matters, one of them may feel cheated in its arrangements.
While their concerns may vary, the couple that files for dissolution must put into mind the effects of this to their child or children. First and foremost, they must take into consideration the feelings and reactions of their children once they find out about it.
Children will most definitely react to the situation in various ways. Some may act in rage and anger, which is common in younger kids. Older children may understand the situation but have not yet fully grasped the effects of it. They may be led to blame themselves that they are the reasons why their parents have to go on living separate lives.