Now if you can employ all these tactics (plus a few others) with patience and faith that it will have a deep affect on your ex, you are almost certain to have success in getting your ex back. Since you've been working on yourself now you may find other men/women who are becoming interested in you to, which is not a bad thing either. There is more to this art of getting back an ex, and you can investigate some good relationship websites to give you more info. Good luck!