The Two Words To Say To Get Your Ex Back - They Are Not I Love You
After a breakup, you probably could kick yourself for standing there speechless as you watched the love of your life walk away
. You feel there is something you could have said to make him change his mind. It is then that you are apt to let your emotions take control and go running after him crying and telling him how much you love him and cannot live without him. If you do that, you are making two deadly mistakes. You are letting your ex see you in the worst possible condition if you want him to love you again. You are appearing needy and desperate and he will be glad to get away from you.The two words to say to get your ex back are not I love you. He is angry about whatever you did to upset him, and he will not believe you or want to hear you say you love him. If you want to get his attention and make him look at you in a different light, the words you need to say are 'I agree.' These are words he never expects to hear you say at this time. He expects you to argue with him and tell him why he should not breakup with you, but when you tell him that you agree with the breakup, it will knock him for a loop. If you can, manage a smile, and add that you have been considering the breakup for some time and you are glad to see that you are both on the same page. Give him a peck on the cheek and send him on his way.
Here is a little male psychology that you should be aware of in order to get your ex back. Men cannot stand rejection and this is what you have just done, you have turned things around and made him the one that is being dumped instead of you. This will boggle his mind. He will not know how you did it, but all of a sudden he is the one that wants you back and you have just sent him on his way. His whole plan has blown up in his face. You were supposed to be the one chasing him, crying, and being desperate. Now, he is the one feeling desperate and he wants you back.
By saying 'I agree', you have said the two words to get your ex back. When he starts going over the breakup in his mind to try and figure out how you made him the rejected one, he will also realize you did not say 'I love you.' This will cause him to feel that you do not want him anymore and add to his desperation. The feeling that he has lost you will be overpowering, and he will be after you tooth and nail until he gets his ex back.
The Two Words To Say To Get Your Ex Back - They Are Not I Love You
By: H. L. Archer