Tired of sucking in the bedroom?
Tired of sucking in the bedroom?
Tired of sucking in the bedroom?
I know how it can be frustrating whenever you fall short in the bedroom. I had the exact same problem and I couldn't figure out why. There are many reasons why a man might not be able satisfy in the bedroom, some reasons may be problems you have physically such as erectile dysfunction. Other reasons may be because you have little experience with the proper techniques, or are just too nervous about the situation. I have dealt with these problems before, and I can help you deal with them.
The first thing is, you have to look at sex as not a big deal. This may be hard for someone who has not had much, because it seems like the holy grail to them. Trust me, its not. Until you are actually good at it, or your partner happens to be good, it will probably be awkward and maybe even unsatisfying. I know my first few times were very awkward and I would have rather wacked it. Good sex is a skill that most are not born with, and it takes practice and studying to get good at it just like any other sport or activity.
The first step to fixing your sex game is to try and remember what happened all the times you had sex that you believe caused problems. This was easy for me, because I realized that every time I had sex my dick wouldn't stay hard for very long, even though I was only in my late teens to early 20s! If you are having this problem I have a solution, but we will get to that soon. Think back to the times you had sex, and try to pinpoint your trouble spots to work on. Some problems such as not taking charge, not knowing any positions, not being clean and ready for sex, not having the tools you need (condoms) or your "tools" not working very well are all common problems. Many problems can be mental issues, even if they have physical symptoms. For example losing your boner can be a mental issue, or a physical issue, or both. Analyzing your sexual failures may be a hard thing to do, but you must indentify your problem before you can solve it.
One helpful way to feel more comfortable about sex is to read about it online. If you search Google you can find many resources to help you get better at sex. Look up good positions, tips for newcomers, and also look up your specific problem if you can. Reading about sex is not the cure to your problems, but arming yourself with information is a great way to help your chances. You must practice any tips you learn, and trust me it is alot harder to actually do it than just read about it. But doing it is the biggest accomplishment, practicing the techniques you learn is the hugest step you can take to solving your mental issues with sex.
Make sure you understand all of the woman's hot spots, such as the g-spot. Also find and read a guide or 2 about oral sex, it can be easier than you think to master and is part of any true sex god's arsenal.
Finally we come to an area where many men fall short. If you are not physically ready to have good sex, then it won't happen. There are four major physical issues that can impede a man's sexual performance. The first issue is your fitness level. Unless your girl is doing all the work, sex can be a very tiring thing. I was surprised when I first tried to have sex that I could not even thrust for more than a few minutes without getting winded and having to stop. Talk about embarassment! Needless to say that sex was horrible and I was so tired and out of shape I didn't even care. I wasn't a fatass either, I was actually pretty average in size, maybe a bit skinny even. The fact is, I was not excercising at all so I was very out of shape and had no endurance. If you think you have this problem too, check out the fitness section of my blog for tips on how to lose fat, and start doing regular cardio excercise if you want to be able to fuck for more than 5 minutes.
The other 3 physical issues than can prevent good sex are all related to your junk, and if it truly is "junk" then it will be alot harder to please girls. Size, Hardness and endurance (meaning no premature ejaculation) are all crucial to good sex. People say size doesn't matter, but the truth is thats a lie. It does matter, but it is not 100% necessary for having good sex. Truthfully hardness and endurance are more important, but size still makes a difference.
A guy can please a girl with an average size penis, which is around 5.5 inches long, but if he is doing it he probably knows what he is doing. For someone just starting out, having a 5 inch dick will make your road that much tougher. Consider that while that might qualify as average size, that likely is not the average of dicks a girl has had. A good percentage of guys with smaller cocks than that probably don't go around bangin hotties, so girls are rarely exposed to them. On the flipside, guys with bigger than average dicks are probably banging more girls, so girls see more of these because the guys are naturally more confident and promiscuous. If you have a bigger than average penis, the fact is, you will not have to work as hard to please her, and the work you do will go a "long way". So do you see what I'm getting at here? For someone who is bad at sex, combining the factor of a bigger, harder dick with mental and physical perparedness for sex will explode your sex game to new heights!
So how do you go about getting a bigger harder dick? Did you know that there is an excercise called "Jelquing" that has been proven to make your dick bigger and harder even though it takes months to years of consistent work? Yeah I discovered that trick years ago, but I also found out that is does irreversible damage to your penis that can make your problems with size and hardness worse! Take it from me, you don't want to go down that road, I wasted alot of time standing in front of a mirror and stretching my penis only to find it was doing more damage than it was helping.
But who in the hell wants to shell out money for viagra or enzyte, or any other pill that makes your dick bigger. The answer:nobody! That is why we make sneaky use of free trials to get the job done! I finally achieved my goal of having good sex after using the free trial of Vierect for a few weeks. Using it cured my weak erection and actually allowed me to maintain one during sex! That night was the first night I had good sex, the first time I made a girl cum, and the first time a girl made me cum! Not only that, but after steady use I did gain some size in my erection. It went from 6" to 7" after using it for a couple months, which is a huge difference. I highly recommend ordering the free trial because it will cost you no money, and it was the key to improving my sex life. Until you have a properly working tool at your disposal, it does not matter what you know. I knew all the stuff I told you up there for years before I had good sex. Its not because the tips don't work, its because you need the right tools to make them work. If you really are tired of not knowing what good sex feels like, you are missing out. I lived my life without sex for so long because of the same reasons as you, and I can assure you that Vierect made the difference that allowed me to experience what I was missing.
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