Want to Truly Win His Undying Love? - Avoid the Killers of Love!
Want to Truly Win His Undying Love? - Avoid the Killers of Love!
Are you hoping to get him to really fall in love with you? Have you been doing a bunch of things to get him interested, but you want to make sure you're not making any fatal errors? Have you known girls who get off to a great start only to end up ruining everything after the second date? Here's what you need to avoid if you want to keep a relationship going for a long, long time.
Even if you know in your heart that you're already in love with him and you want to be with him all the time, don't show him how obsessed with him you've become. This isn't healthy for the relationship. He wants to know you're interested, but if it is freakishly intense, you'll scare him away. Refuse to spend every free moment you have with him and maintain a good degree of the life you've always enjoyed. He'll respect you for it.
Don't become a killjoy. Guys really want to have fun. To a large extent it's as simple as that. So make your dates with him enjoyable. You don't want to start complaining about a bunch of silly little things, and you certainly don't want to start complaining about him. If you're already nagging him after only a few dates, the guy isn't going to have a very optimistic view of a future with you.
If you feel you're really attracted to him, it must be because he has a lot of the qualities you're looking for in a man. So love him for who he is. If you've just become attracted to the looks and you want to try to change everything else so that he lives up to your expectations, you're setting yourself up to fail.
He'll grow to resent you and the relationship will falter.
When you find the man who really fits the ideal of the man you're looking for, you're probably going to fall in love and fast. But don't expect it to be the same for him. Guys can really take a long time to fall in love, and that isn't a bad thing. After all, you have so much to learn about one another and it's not just a few dates that will do it.
Don't think that a long, in depth conversation is going to cover everything you need to know. It's the time that you're going to spend together that is really going to tell you the kind of couple you're going to make.
Guys fall hard for the girl they have fun with and who doesn't make any move to actually turn the relationship into a romantic one. They enjoy themselves and the love grows while they're not even noticing it. Give him time to develop that love and it won't be long before he's telling you that he's falling in love with you.