This is the question that plagues you night and day. It's been a while since you've broken up and now all you can think about is how to get your ex back. So, what can you do to get your ex back? Is there anything that really works? How about something that works fast? You spent so much of your life looking for that perfect someone. You aren't ready to give up and just walk away. You're willing to do whatever it takes to make things work. The problem right now is that you can't even get your ex to return your calls.
You've tried a few times to make things right between you and your ex. You might have even succeeded briefly but you keep breaking up. Or, perhaps you haven't even been able to get that far. Maybe you're just treading water and not really getting anywhere in your efforts to get your ex back. The problem isn't what you are doing or what you're doing wrong. The problem is actually about the one thing you're not doing.
If you're constantly trying new things and coming up with new approaches to try to get your ex back then maybe you're not giving your ex the one thing that he or she needs most in order to really see how much you mean. You need to give your ex the time to realize what life is like without your in it. That isn't going to happen as long as you are popping up all the time trying to fix the relationship. I know this goes against everything your heart is SCREAMING at you to do but you need to consider a serious relationship break if you really want to save your relationship and get your ex back for keeps this time.
You've tried all the things that fail. You've tried constant calling. You've tried driving by. You've tried begging. You've made bargains. You may have even made promises that you had every intention of keeping but eventually broke in an effort to save your relationship and get your ex back. Nothing has worked. Perhaps now is the perfect time to change your approach.
It's time to stop doing all the things you know don't work. It's time to try a new approach and plan for better results this time by letting your ex feel what it's really like to live a life without you in it. Give your ex a little time and space to MISS you like crazy and to see why you are so important.
