My husband made a few of these mistakes in the beginning and I called him on every one of them
. Please understand that healing after an affair is difficult. Don't add to the problems by making some of the mistakes I've outlined here. Luckily, we were still able to move on. It took work, but it was so worth it. I now understand myself, my husband, our marriage, and our intimacy on a much deeper level and I no longer worry that he will cheat again. You can read a very personal story on my blog at http://surviving-the-affair.com