What Others Think of You, Matters?
What Others Think of You, Matters?
What Others Think of You, Matters?
When was the last time you were told by someone that you are no good'? (Happens with me every day, don't know about you)
And your mood' remained off' or bad for the next whole week/month?
Just because you werethought (of course by someone) that you were not good.
Think about it.
Why would you let someone, no matter how close that person is to you, let you feel that you areactually not good?
And how could he/she know whatelse is good inside you?
And that so many times you have proven how good you are People praised you, admired you, clapped for you, gave you a raiseet al. What happened to those times?
(Its good to have a list of events that made you happy. Keep a diary or a journal for that)
Andwhy would you needsomeone to tell you how good or bad you actually are?
Let me tell you an interesting story of a teacher.
He enters the class and shows everyone a 100 dollar bill/note. And asks Who wants it?'
Of course, everyone raises their hands.
The teacher crumples the note and then asks the same questions. Of course everyone still wanted that note.
Then he throws it on the ground and crushes it with his feet, without actually damaging the note. Again, the students wanted the note.
He then asks, did the value of the note go down when it was crumpled, wrinkled or crushed?
Of course NOT.
Then how could your value be diminished just because you are going through a difficult phase? Which will end very soon.
You are what you are no one has the right to tell you any differently. Constructive criticism is good, very good
But most people do it to belittle you. And you, of all the people, should know it.
Its good to bounce off ideas with others who like and love you, but when they begin to become negative about you, your attitudes, your dreams, your passionThen you know the time has come to?
And as this old Urdu adage goes:
Suno sab ki par karo apni.Listen to everyone, but do what you think is right.
Don't tell others how much you are worth, they don't know.
And in the beautiful words of Regina Brett - an 80+ year old 'girl':
"What others think of you is not your problem."
Until we believe in ourselves, no one else will.
Let them say whatever they want to.
They always will. You cant make everyone happy. And you shouldn't even try!
If you liked this post, you might like the following ones as well which are somewhat related:
I am-No-Good' Syndrome
Do People Laugh at Your Dreams
What Will People Think? (Loag Kya Kahengey)
Have a fantastic life.
Love the life you live or live the life you love.
Shoot for the moon.
Nuruddin Abjani
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