When Is It Time To Give Up On The Idea Of Reconciling With Your Ex Boyfriend?

You know that you can't go on forever thinking about him and what might have been

. You also know that there is a part of you that doesn't want to give up on the idea of being able to reconcile with your ex boyfriend. The question becomes, is there a time when you just have to figure that it is not going to happen and how do you really know when that time is? This is not always an easy thing to answer. There are variables in every situation that are unique, so trying to answer this with one suggestion probably isn't going to cut it.

However, there are some signs that it might be time for you to consider the possibility that you might want to try to put him in your past. Here are a few of them:

1. When you know that your ex boyfriend is dating around and doesn't seem to want to be bothered with you, that could be a good indication that it is time to forget about him.

It's not really just the fact that he is dating around, it's the fact that he doesn't seem to want to be bothered with you that should be a wake up call for you. You could end up wasting a good chunk of your life chasing after a guy who doesn't want to be with you instead of spending that time focused on something else. You could also end up missing out on meeting someone new if you are too focused on your ex boyfriend even if he doesn't seem to want to be bothered with you.

2. When you feel like wanting him back hurts more than it brings you joy.

The idea of getting back with a guy who is good to you and who makes you feel good should only bring you welcomed emotions. Now, if you aren't feeling those kinds of emotions and you are feeling bad about your situation most of the time, that could be another sign that it might be time for you to give up on the desire to reconcile with him. It may sting for a little while to know that you have given up on the idea of being able to patch things up with your ex boyfriend, but in the long run... it might be the best thing that you can do. After all, the right guy probably won't make you feel bad, right?

by: Alexandra Scott

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