Which Road Should You Take To Rear A Good Child?
All throughout the parenting process, you'll find yourself thinking and even daydreaming
about things like wonderful times you will spend with your child, but you have to put that one on hold just for now. The arrival of a baby can be an overwhelming task.
THE PROCESS OF BEING A NEW PARENT.
At the time conception, your gratifying job as a parent finally begins. Parenting can be compared to riding a roller coaster, where throughout the way you will experience sky high thrills and even sometimes heart breaking downhill's.
HERE ARE THE PROCESSES THAT YOU SHOULD KNOW TO BECOME SKILLED IN PARENTING.
You will learn good parenting skills when you allow your child to win sometimes and make sure that he/she loses as well in some battles that they face. There will be times when you will disapprove of your child's actions and attitude, but remember you do not want to traumatize your child in the process. Remember that too much criticism is not going to do you any good in in your parent and child relationships.
PARENTING IS A NEVER-ENDING JOB.
Just because now that your child is taller than you doesn't mean that they are more matured and ready for anything that this world can offer them. The first response of your child's question that parents gives to their kid is important and will possibly stick with your child for the rest of their lives. Even after all of your children have grown up, they will still come to you for advice.
To be a parent, this requires you to walk in a fine thin line. As parents, we are not going to just sit back and do nothing about our child misbehavior or about the situation at hand, what kind of lessons are we teaching them if we doing nothing? Children would not survive the newborn baby stage, let along be full grown adults if parents didn't teach their kids properly.
TEACH YOUR KIDS SELF-RELIANCE
A child's independence is a important part for them to learn on how to earn what they want and be empowered to make their own true happiness. To be happy (blissfully) is what most parents want for their child. You would make them have fond childhood memories or in a way heal your own emotional wounds by giving your children all of these materialistic things, you are interfering with your child's development unconsciously.
Avoiding to spoil your child is your choice, but this is the most important time for you to show them and make then understand compassion, to be with them as they moved on towards adulthood.
GET MORE COMPLIANCE FROM YOUR CHILD.
Always relate your command as a statement, and never as a your child a question - Most parents are prone to saying, "Would you like to star doing your homework now?" and other commands which should always be stated using a firm voice such as saying, "It's time to work on your homework now", which can help you gain more cooperation from your child. A example of positive communication is, when your child asks "Can I watch TV now?" If your initial response to allowing your child to watch TV is "No, you can't watch TV right now, try saying, "You can watch right after dinner".
By using rewards - You can focus on your child's positive attitude instead of the negatives by trying to put a marble in a jar when ever your child starts doing something for the first time that you asked which in turn provides more cooperation from your child.
COMMON CHILD AND PARENT PROBLEMS.
Parents then have to try and learn how to let go by letting their child become a little bit more independent. We never wanted to stand out like a dweeb or a sore loser to be laughed at. How hard can being parent can be? In a sense, parenting can be considered as quite easy, however when it comes down to giving advice and helping your children this is where things get difficult. So if you do not have one of these back at home and you are basically clueless about them do not even contemplate on trying to help your child with their school work.
MAKE MEMORIES WITH QUALITY FAMILY TIME.
First, parents should try to rearrange their schedules in order the entire family to sit down for meals even if it's just for one meal out of the week.
THE FOLLOWING TIPS ENSURE THAT YOUR FAMILY TIME WILL BE STRESS FREE AND WILL ENSURE THAT YOU WILL MAKE YOUR FAMILY MEMORIES LAST FOR A LIFETIME:
Remember that by having pleasant dinner talks it is one of the most effective and the simplest way to create family bonds/ties and this will truly make your memories last you for a lifetime. Be sure to maintain a pleasant conversation at dinnertime as well as having inspirational and upbeat conversations too.
If dinnertime conversations are not pleasant, your family members will not even remember these times spent together as a family and in turn family dinners this will easily be just an activity that they don't want to participate in. If your family does not want to participate in family dinner due to unpleasant conversation, that is certainly counterproductive of quality family time. Try to set at least an hour or two aside with your family, before your next scheduled activity.
by: Mehmet Emin Baykal
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