Why Some Guys Just Never Get It - What You Should Do Instead

There are plenty of men out there that are more than willing to give you dating advice and tips

. Yet most of these guys are far from really happy with their own dating lives, so you may want to heed some caution with whatever advice you do get. Most guys don't seem to get the fact that there is no one way to attract all women. There are differences and thank goodness for that. After all, it would be pretty boring if attracting women all came down to one standard blueprint.

With that being said, here are some tips that should help you out:

1. Pay attention to a woman's personality. When you can figure out what makes the woman that you want tick, then you know what you need to do to attract her. Sure, there are some commonalities amongst women, but you have to focus on the one that you are with. If you meet a woman and you really want to build a bond with her, you have to be able to figure out what she is looking for in a man.

2. Dress in your own style. The funny thing that I see when I go out to a club is how many guys are all sporting the same look. There's something appealing about variety and if you follow what every other guys is doing, then you are just going to appear to be a carbon copy of every other guy around you. Work your own style and make it fit to your personality. Me, I could never wear some of the girlie looking jeans that you see on most guys today, so I don't. And I still have no problem at all when it comes to attracting a hottie.

3. Make your personality more dynamic. Most guys will try and copy a certain style of personality, but in the end, you really want to just make yours more dynamic. There's no sense in trying to become something that you are not, and you will easily give off clues that you are more of a put on than anything else. Most women are pretty good at detecting this, and if you do get to go on more than a couple of dates with a woman, she will see through you.

And then the attraction will slowly die. You have to be able to make her fall for you, and to do this, you have to be able to build her attraction.

Copyright (c) 2009 C Tyler

by: C Tyler

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