Winning Your Ex Back - The Do's and Don'ts to Your Success!
Winning Your Ex Back - The Do's and Don'ts to Your Success!
It can be hard to recover from a breakup. It can feel like your world is crumbling beneath your feet; nothing feels safe, secure or certain. If you are still in love and need help winning your ex back, here are the do's and don'ts to your success.
o Don't appear desperate. When you are desperate, you will do crazy, silly things to get your ex back. That's exactly what you shouldn't do if you want to win your ex back. If you are having a hard time controlling your emotions, stay away from your ex until you can see things more clearly.
o Do have patience. It may feel like it will take forever before you win your ex back, which can make you want to do something, anything to speed things along. If you have issues with waiting for your ex to come around, get busy. Take up a new hobby, go on a trip, visit a spa, or write a book. Whatever you need to do to slow yourself down. To win your ex back, it's better to wait on your ex to come to you on their own than to try to influence them in any way.
o Don't make contact with your ex. Whatever you do, don't call, text or email your ex. And, never go by their place. To successfully attract and win your ex back, you must sever all ties. You must make your ex really, truly and deeply miss you and desire to have you back by your avoiding all contact. Even a little contact, in the beginning, can make your ex forget and believe he or she really doesn't need you back.
o Do keep your composure. When you finally decide to make contact, stay cool and calm. If you act jittery and anxious, if you act nervous and too excited your ex may think you are placing too much emphasis on the possibility of a relationship. Your ex may become uncomfortable with your apparent need to rush back into a relationship when all they want to do was have a conversation.
o Don't forget about karma. Don't do anything, now, that you may have to pay for later. Don't key your ex's car, don't drive by their house or apartment harassing any man or woman who might be coming to visit your ex, or don't interrogate everyone who knows your ex. You will one day reap what you sow and any crazy antics will scare your ex away for good.
o Do love yourself. Don't forget to take the best care of yourself and be the kind of person you'd love to date. When you realize there is nothing you can get from your ex that you can't get from yourself, you will regain your perspective and be able to remain calm and patient. This attitude will almost miraculously capture your ex's attention and you will win at winning your ex back!