Women Getting Divorced - Know Why? It's Because Of You!
In the United States the divorce rate has declined over the last 10 years
. The latest known number of Americans getting a divorce each year is 38%, or over 1,000,000 couples. That is a lot of people. If you talk to women, it's the man's problem. If you talk to men, it's the woman. So what is the answer? This article takes a mans point-of-view. Tricky...
It has been said that during a day, a man will think about sex every 7 seconds. I would hate to know that poor libido juiced guy! Even I would not feel safe around him. Studies do show that around 50% of men think about sex several times a day. Seeing a pretty woman, looking at a magazine or a billboard (it doesn't take much), or walking past Victoria's Secret can trigger the desire to caress a woman and feel the essence of her body.
Men are trapped with the animal instinct to propagate, even when it is not a conscious thought. He has the wish to expunge his deep cravings to be with a woman once that switch is flipped. It is almost like a light switch, flip... it's on, and a few seconds later, flip... its off. Fact is, the average sex session lasts from three to ten minutes. Men are too insensitive and far too quick, generally, when doing the dirty mambo. All they have in mind is relief for their "wild bologna pony." Men are basic and easy to please. We need to work on that...
Women are in control in most relationships. They have the power and the tools to make him jump, and he will ask "how high?" It seems most women miss using their formidable triggers, their minds and their "bodies" to get almost anything in life they want. Men do like both. Brains and pussy, and not in that order.
For some reason, women stop using both, and wonder "what happen" to the relationship. Here is my observation... The woman begin to put on some weight. They have a child or two and the weight never comes off or it is hard to get off. You get busy at work and are too tired to exercise. How you look to your "sigot" (significant other) becomes less important than it did at one time. You feel safe or could care less because of an attitude.
Stress builds up. You begin to feel vulnerable. You accept going form a size 8 to a 16 because "I'm are getting older." You stop taking care of yourself. If you do think about toning up" what happens? Firming up or losing weight is something for tomorrow; you get too comfortable and think he will love you fatter. You forget what landed Mr. Right in the first place.
Remember, this article is a mans perspective. So the relationship begins to fall apart. Get a divorce, and now you want to lose weight so you can get your figure back because you know men are not attracted to "fat girl.". Watch out men, the fly paper is out of the pantry and you are the fly! Women prove the point over and over. Lose the weight, be a flirt and snag another man who is looking for love. There are out there and many are married. Men start looking for love at home (that's why they got married!) and that is his desire. Like it or not, the woman has a huge impact on how the relationship goes. Use your "assets" because the man is watching, feeling, and wanting love. If he feels your love, he will break his neck to make you happy. I am not talking about being a love slave or Molly Maid either. Let him know you want to be the center of his world and will work to stay there.
Look at yourself in the mirror. What's he seeing? Do you like what you see? Really? Odds are he has a few nuts that need turned to stop the hemorrhaging of the relationship as well. Could be his size has expanded as well. What does it matter who initiates the change. Do it together. Watch what you eat, drink, play, say. Want to lose weight, do it together at times. Once you do begin seeing the difference in the lifestyle you are living, both of you will feel a sense of accomplishment. Then when the man gets Mr. Woody stretched, you will be the reason for his passion. You deserve it, and so does your family.
by: Ted Holcomb
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