You Need To Put Romance Back Into Your Relationship To Save Your Marriage

Do you feel as though your marriage is going downhill and headed for a divorce

? Is there something you wish you could do in order to save your marriage? Many couples go through hard times in their marriage even though they might still be in love. Start fixing your relationship now before you get to a place that is too hard to get out of, and put the romance back into your marriage now.

Years can cause many changes between a couple. Romance is often the first thing to go. Things like finances or the needs of the kids can get in the way and out-weigh the needs of the parents. Love and affection is always needed in the relationship. The bond may become stretched and break between the couple if these needs are not met. Plus, if one person is committed to keeping the romance alive while the other puts it on the back burner, resentment can build; and resentment can crush a marriage quite easily. Get that romance back into your marriage by using some of these ways.

It can be hard to find time for yourselves if there are children involved in a couple's relationship. Grandma and grandpa, a neighbor or a babysitter can watch the kids for just a night so that the two of you can spend sometime together and keep the romance alive. A wonderful relationship refresher can be something as small as a chance to have a dinner out alone. It is also possible to show affection to your partner on an everyday basis without being intimate or even being home. A simple thing like a love note left in a place your partner can find it during the day will show how much you care. A simple thing like writing "I love you!" on a small piece of paper and leaving it where they will find it can build up the romance between the two of you plus it will show your partner that you care about them. You can also take a walk together. The most important thing sometime is to put aside your responsibilities such as dishes, the lawn, or bills and make time to spend alone with your partner. A walk together has always been a great way to spend time together and focus on your partner leaving all the distractions behind.

Your partner's needs must always be taken into consideration. Looking at your to-do list, romance may not be on the top of the list. It might be number one on your partner's list even if it isn't on yours. Be open to the suggestions of your partner. If you cannot make time for your spouse, a relationship will quickly fall into the gutter. It will make a big difference in our busy lives if we take time with our spouse to hold onto a lingering kiss and put our busy schedule aside and make time for them.

Regarding your expectations for affection, sex, and romance in your marriage, remember to be open and honest with your spouse. If the course of your life is not where you expect it to be, now is the time to start. Telling yourself that "someday" you will have the time to be romantic will only hurt your marriage. You will realize that "someday" may never come and you will have wasted all that time you had on nothing.

by: Matt Reese

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