You Want Your Ex Back? Avoid The 5 Costly Mistakes Most People Make
So, you want your ex back, huh? Hopefully this is not a knee-jerk reaction spawned from irrational thoughts or emotions
. While that is perfectly normal, any attempt at going after your ex, in the wrong state-of-mind, or without a plan is a recipe for disaster. It truly needs careful thought and a real plan with deliberate actions. Your plan should start with what not to do.1. Wallow in self pity. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. It's not attractive and it is vital that you get into a positive frame of mind.
2. Call or text your ex. If you have been, stop! Don't make anymore contact until your plan is in place. The time and space rule is vital here. Especially want to avoid the drunken dial.
3. Contact friends or family. Not really a great tactic to contact your ex's friends or family anyway, especially without a plan.
4. Manipulation. Cease all trickery or manipulation. You should be focused on how to win your ex back by elevating yourself and this would lower your stature.
5. Failure to make a plan. The biggest mistake would be to try to wing this. You may have just one opportunity and it's best you don't try to go it alone. It wouldn't hurt to get a coach or an expert source.
You get the theme here. Having a plan, including specific steps to follow and even the right words to say is crucial. Your goal is not to manipulate, trick, conspire or instigate trouble. You're trying to make yourself more attractive, not the object of pity or anger.
by: Elena Morgan