Your Ex's Rebound - How You Can Deal With It by:Teecee Go
The intimidation of finding your ex with someone else can be a defeating feeling
. However, just because your ex has entered the dating scene again, doesn't mean your chances of getting him back are over. In fact, you're actually seeing a sign of a good thing that means your ex is getting ready to start putting commitment in someone again. A new relationship for him really isn't as bad as it seems.
More likely than your ex moving completely on is that your ex has just entered into a rebound relationship. You've heard of these, right? It's not as bad as you imagine because most rebound relationships don't work out. It's generally just an attempt your ex is making to recover and not feel so alone and miserable. A breakup is hard on both parties, no matter who did the breaking up.
Because rebounds rarely last you have very little to worry about. Sometimes a new relationship is just something your ex is doing to go out and have some fun. There is a difference between fun with friends and fun with someone you're attracted to, so it's a necessary step for your ex to make.
It might even be wise for you to go out on a few dates. You don't have to look for anything serious but you can still go out and have some fun. A few dates will do wonders to boosting your confidence again and making you (and likely your ex) realizes how attractive you really are. Just because your ex is going on dates with someone, doesn't mean your chance to get him back is over.