Have you noticed that your sex life is better or was better after having a baby
? You need to remember that she will need some time for her body go back to normal. She might need time as she will not be quite ready for this emotionally or physically. This new baby will be needing her time almost 24-7. You might find yourself wishing this baby never came. This will end after a month or two and then you will have no problem getting it almost anytime you want. This sex might be some of the best you can remember. But even this will not last forever unless you find ways to keep it fresh.
When this new baby shows up you will need to help as much as possible so that this emotional time might not take so long. Even helping in small ways will help her much. You might help with dinner or even letting her take a slow soaking bath while you take care of your child. This might be scary for you but so was it to her when she did it for the first time. Even changing a diaper for the first time can be something to experience. You might even find that when your wife is ready for sex you might want to play the baby. This experience could be very stimulating for both of you. Until this time take everything into consideration and maybe even go back to wooing her like you did when you first starting dating.
If your wife had a Cesarean Section you will have to wait until at least the first six week check-up but you might be able to have fun without actually doing the act. There are many ways this can be done where you might get the pleasure of each other and still play it safe. It would not be a good idea to do anything before this time as you might end up with another one on the way. This would not be the best thing to do as your wife would not need this as it is too soon. Her body needs to heal first.
Sex is a very important part of your marriage. You might want to have it every day but this can cause you both to become bored. You might want to back off and slow things down or find something like maybe a toy or two to spice it up. If you happen to remember that with all of this the little ones can come at least wear some protection.
