You may have taken your time in finding her, this wonderful woman of yours, but you certainly made the right decision to spend your life with her. After all, who is it that you share all of your secrets with, all the happy events and occasions in your lives with? Who is it that listens to your problems, without criticism, and puts up with your snoring, your socks, and your dubious dress sense, not to mention the dreadful man flu you suffer so...more
If you think that dating is all about your choice of words, then think again. When it comes to dating, nothing is more important than your body language. 'Speaking' the right dating body language is important because it tell your date what kind of person you are. The success of your date depends on your body language.The body language is so powerful because it speaks directly to the sub-conscious mind. And it is not a match against verbal...more
What is life REALLY all about? It's all about love! But what does this mean?Most people, when thinking about love, think about BEING LOVED. But, as an adult, the deeper soul's journey is not about being loved - it is about BEING LOVING. For small children, the main focus is on being loved, but as we grow up we need to shift our focus from being loved to being loving. When we do not shift our focus, we end up missing out on what life is all about.Being loving is about supporting our own and others highest good with kindness, caring, understanding, and compassion.WHEN WE ARE LOVING TO OURSELVES, WE ARE LOVING TO OTHERSContrary to what many people believe, being loving to ourselves is not at all about being selfish. Being loving to ourselves means that we are taking full responsibility for our own feelings and needs so that we are not needy, selfish, and demanding of others to do this for us. It is when we are not loving ourselves that we selfishly make others responsible for giving to us the love that we are not giving to ourselves, and try to have control over getting their love.Being loving to ourselves never means that we disregard others' feelings and needs. It doesn't mean that...more
Listen up, girls! You don't have to waste precious time biting your fingernails or converging with your friends to figure out whether a guy is interested in you or not. There are ways to tell a guy likes you; and lucky for you, I'm sharing these tell-tale signs right now from a guy's (and master persuader's) point of view. Aside from buying you a...more
Fans of the pop duo Savage Garden may remember some of the words from the hit song "Affirmations" - "I believe you can't appreciate real love till you've been burnt".Haven't we all been "burnt" by love at one time or another? At the time, it can feel like the worst thing that has ever happened to us. The feelings of loss, rejection or loneliness...more
Some people are straight, while others are not. We often refer to those who are not straight as homosexuals—either gays or lesbians to be exact. But, there is an often- overlooked segment of the gay/lesbian and straight communities: the bisexuals, also popularly known as "bi's". So what exactly is bisexuality? According to Wikipedia, "bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the romantic and/or sexual attraction of individuals to others of either genders or sexes." However, a bisexual person may have varying degrees of attraction to either sexes, and may not necessarily have an equal attraction to both sexes. Unlike homosexuality, this sexual orientation is loosely interpreted; bisexuality is often perceived as just a "phase or transition", and that bisexuals simply can't make up their minds whether to go straight or gay. However, just like homosexuality, the causes of bisexuality are far from understood. Some people believe that a person is born with a specific sexual orientation, while others think that this is mostly due to socialization or the individual's own choice; for some, it is a mix of both. Since a person's biological, social and cultural factors differ for...more
With the boom in the online dating industry, more and more singles end up in a relationship with someone from as far as the other end of the globe, with an entirely different culture and yes, religion. Although interracial dating is very common...more
I am sure you think as overrated the cliche that 'love is blind' - but neuroscience, this prodigy child of science, unveils with an almost cruel satisfaction that some areas of our brains shut down when love comes upon us, blinding the ration from...more
Singles of all ages, throughout the world, have been using quasi-anonymous methods for contacting other single people and social groups. From the days of the first personal advertisements in the classified section of magazines and newspapers, an...more
Will You Meet a Mate This Week?There are moments in most singles lives when you seek someone to share your life and experiences- feelings, to be precise. Break-ups in relationships and divorces are so common in today's world that today many websites,...more
Complaining aggravates the behavior it seeks to cure. Lose the ability to complain.The less you react, the less cause and provocation you will have for reaction.Disengage yourself from every conflict as soon as possible.Give your partner the benefit...more
"Love is a passion and it seeks for two things, eternity and intensity." (Sri Aurobindo) Yet all too often that passionate feeling arrives without warning out of nowhere and then vanishes just as suddenly without a trace. In The Notebook, an old man...more