The one way that you will ruin any chance of getting your ex back, is to make calls day and night, send text messages begging and pleading to be taken back, and generally making a complete pest of yourself. This type of reaction from you will only make your ex resent you and find you extremely unattractive because of your weak, pathetic behavior.What could work very well and possibly make you succeed in getting your ex back, is if...more
After a break up, no matter how difficult it is, you should control your emotions at all costs - they are your private feelings, so keep them that way - private. Of course if you see your ex now you will want to rush up to him/her, cry, beg, and plead, in the hope of winning your ex back. The only thing is displaying your raw emotions publicly like this is totally wrong.Not only will it be absolutely degrading to you, but it will...more
You know, very often after a break up, you are so depressed about what has happened, that you cannot think properly and feel that the only way to get your life back again is by winning your ex back. The reality is though, when you are so devastated and in such a depressed state, the only things that go through your mind are the good time that you had with your ex.Now while it is probably quite true that there WERE good times, there are also bad times to remember as well, unfortunately. The thing is, your depression only allows you to remember the good times, because you honestly believe that winning your ex back is the only thing that is going to make your devastating situation right again.You could be imagining that what you are feeling right now is deep love for your partner, when it is really only very deep depression and a longing to get back what is over now. So how do you know for sure how you feel? By giving yourself time to get over the heartache and pain of the break up first.Just put the break up and your ex out of your mind for a little while if possible. Don't sit around wallowing in your misery - it will only make you sink deeper and deeper into...more
You are in this deep, dark, state of depression ever since the relationship failed, and the one thing that keeps going around in your mind is whether or not it is possible to get and ex back after a break up. First of all I have to tell you that there is definitely a possibility to get back together with your ex after a break up.You...more
Wouldn't it be absolutely great if you could get your ex to come back to you without having to beg and plead for him/her to take you back? If the situation you're in right now makes you think that this is a ridiculous impossibility, then think again! Getting your ex back by using reverse psychology is very possible, and WILL probably...more
Finding out that your partner of a long time is involved with someone else very soon after your break up is distressing. However, even though your ex is dating someone else right now, if you are patient and determined enough, then there IS a possibility for you to win your ex back.It all depends on how you handle the situation. Of course your first thought is to call your ex and let him/her know in no uncertain terms just how you feel about the fact that there is a new someone around. But, I can tell you for sure that all you will achieve by doing this is the satisfaction of having your say. You will feel relieved once you have those feelings off your chest, but it will only push any chances to win your ex back a whole lot further away from you! So, what IS the right thing to do?Well first of all, relax. The new relationship might be the real deal, but there is also a very good chance that it is a rebound relationship as well. The only thing is, no one, not even your ex will know for sure until some time has passed whether it is truly a solid relationship or not.So the best thing that you can do right now is to just leave your ex alone and carry on with your own life....more
Some people just don't realize how traumatic a break up really is. All they know is that they are feeling so depressed and bitter about what has happened, and they actually believe that the solution to this problem is to contact their...more
So you're totally devastated - even more than you were after the break up. You have recently heard from your friends that your ex has been hanging around with someone else - a lot! It looks pretty serious as well, because they seem to...more
Yes, you are utterly miserable after the break up, and yes, you feel as if your world will end if you don't get your ex back, but are you thinking clearly right now? Have you thought properly about your reasons for wanting to get back...more
The only thing that you want more than anything in the world since the relationship ended, is to have your ex back in your arms again. Because of this, you have been trying for days to make contact with your ex, but with no luck at all....more
Just like millions of people the world over, you feel that your situation is unique and that it is impossible for you to get your ex back. Those millions of people get just one piece of advice, and it usually works. So, if you want to...more
It does sound weird doesn't it - get over the break up first and then get your ex back. The whole idea of getting back together with your ex is because of the break up! You feel so miserable and down, that the only thing that will help...more