Coping with Depressed Spouse? - Three Things You Must Know When Coping With Depressed Spouse Coping with depressed spouse? If you are you know how stressful for the partner (you) other family members it can be. You can't talk anymore, your social life suffers, and feelings of satisfaction with the marriage are fading fast. It doesn't have to be that way forever. Here are 5 excellent ways that will help you when coping with depressed...more
Confronting a Cheating Spouse - Helpful Ways to Take the Right Approach to Discovering the Truth About Your Spouse and Infidelity If you think that your spouse may be in the midst of having an affair behind your back, you may feel as though you are walking around on pins and needles around them. Even though you want to scream and yell at them and accuse them, you aren't going to achieve anything by doing that. Instead, you need to take a...more
Is My Spouse Cheating On Me? Find Out Now Do you worry and are uneasy when ever your spouse heads out the door with his or her friends for a night out? This is a fairly new habit for your partner and it seems to be happening more often and the hours out are getting longer and longer.You hate to think it but you have to ask yourself "Is my spouse cheating on me?".This is something that no one, especially if you have children, wants to deal with, a cheating mate. With all that is going on in the economy and such, this threat to your family and financial security is not something you want to deal with. Your mind is spinning but you keep coming back to "How dare my mate do this to our family and me?".You Need To Figure Out What Is Going OnYour first thought is to strike out at them because of the stress you are under from their cheating. An understandable and normal reaction. Your mate, after all, may be falling in love with some one else or at least have sex with that person.If you can, before you confront your mate, stow the emotions and systematically discover proof about their affair. Who knows maybe you're wrong and your mate isn't cheating.Check for these signs of...more
What To Do If Your Spouse Wants To Move Out (But You Don't Want Him To) I get a lot of emails from people who are in a panic that their spouse is going to (or wants to) move out. Other than actually getting served with divorce papers, this is the scenario which strikes the most fear into your heart. It's completely understandable to...more
When Married Couples Drift Apart – How to Reconnect with Your Spouse When married couples drift apart they often seek out a divorce. They look at what they had and where they are now and they come to the realization that the closeness and emotional intimacy has disappeared. Instead of putting in the effort to fix the problems, they hide...more
The Healing Process When Your Spouse Cheats Or Has An Affair I can think of very few things that were as painful and threw me for a loop as much as when I found out my husband had cheated. I've certainly had adversity in my life and have lived through some difficult times, but the betrayal, self doubt, and resentment that followed my husband's affair was very hard to overcome. With that said, I can now look back at it as a difficult time which I did get through and emerged stronger.If you've found this article, you must believe that you can heal because you absolutely can. It will take a bit or work and it will take demanding and receiving what you need, but it can certainly be done. I will explain how in the following article.Make Sure You Have Your Say And You Are Heard And Understood: It's very common to sort of choke back your feelings in the aftermath of the affair – even to yourself. We sometimes go to such a dark place that we don't want to share this because deep down we feel ashamed. It is so important to remember that none of this is your fault. Despite what you did or you didn't do, despite the signs that were there which you may have missed, your spouse is the...more
How to Heal From A Spouse's Betrayal: Healing After Cheating, Affairs, Or Infidelity The list of the negative fall out from an affair is long. In addition to the hurt, shock, and lessening of self esteem, the feeling of being betrayed...more
Even the most capable partner will also meet depression: You are resentful because your partner will not snap out of the household chores, or feel that you're somehow to criticize for the illness. You might simply wonder when the joy, the humor and...more
Truly Forgiving A Cheating Spouse: Is It Possible? If So, How? I sometimes get emails from wives who read my infidelity articles. Yesterday, I got one which said "I know that I will never forget about his cheating. But, I do want to...more
Mending Fences With Your Spouse How about your marriage today?Is it flourishing or shattering?Are you counting reasons why you should separate from your spouse?Is your life threatened due to incompatibility with your spouse?Have you concluded...more
Tricks and Tools to Catch a Cheating Spouse It's not a nice thought that your partner is cheating on you, but if you have suspicions you can always try some good techniques to catch a cheating spouse. This article gives you a few safe and...more
I've already discussed some signs and signals of a cheating spouse. Many people have said that there will be signals, and I have to agree with them. The key is for the scorned, or the suspicious spouse to decide that they are going to pay attention...more