There are different reasons why spouse had one night stand which might be valid or still unaccepted. It always depends on your perception when it comes to short term relationship which includes the norms and your contentment. These two factors are also the basis in categorizing one night stand as either accepted or unaccepted action. When talking about the norms, the thought that spouse had one night stand is unaccepted and it...more
I get a lot of emails in which the spouse who was cheated on can not let go of the blame and the resentment toward the spouse who cheated. Often they have tried many things to get past this, but every time they look at their spouse, they just can not see anything but anger.In contrast, I sometimes also get emails from the spouse who has cheated but who in some way is blaming their spouse for the cheating. Sometimes they will say...more
Last night, I received an email from a woman who told me that her husband had an "emotional affair" with a coworker but he continued to downplay this, as though it weren't really a big deal. The wife had found emails that showed that this relationship was really inappropriate. The husband was confessing and confiding things about his marriage to the coworker that had clearly crossed the line. However, he insisted that since they had no real physical or intimate contact, that "nothing had happened." He insisted that the wife was making a big deal out of nothing.This was certainly quite something to the wife. She was deeply hurt by this and could not stop thinking about it. His inability to take this seriously, to be deeply sorry, and to try to fix this mess was seriously affecting and endangering their marriage. But, the wife could not make him see this and she suspected that he really didn't care nearly as much as she did. She wanted my advice as to how to make him see that this was a serious problem. She wanted to do something to make him sorry so that he wouldn't do this anymore and they could move on. I'll tell you what I told her in the...more
Let me ask you a question. Have you ever seen any advert agency or modeling outfit using a very fat person as a model in their advertising campaigns? Except for the Michelin ad that showed strength and toughness of the Michelin tire range, have you ever seen a very fat person modeling for any advert project? It rarely happens. Why?Let...more
After you have discovered that your spouse has had or is having an affair, you are going to need some serious help for your marriage. You should get help as soon as possible, the longer you postpone it and try to handle it yourself, the more complicated it can be for you. You are experiencing all types of negative thoughts and mental...more
From its inception the purpose of European Community Law is to integrate citizens and particularly family members of the union's citizens to an ever increasing common market. Most fundamental to citizens of the European Community or European Union depending on what aspect of community law one is focusing on relate to freedom of movement between member states and access to services. It is with this aspect of community law that has encountered the most evolution. Take for example a French national married to a Columbian national (non EEA member) who arrives in the United Kingdom and wishes to gain access to public benefits, what aspects of community law are encountered? UK Immigration would originally place a requirement on the Columbian national gaining entry clearance into the United Kingdom for the particular purpose of the individual's visit either as a general or family visitor, a worker or employment category or as a spouse to a UK national. However European Community Law recognises not only the freedom of movement of citizens of its member states but also those of certain categories of family members including spouses, dependant children, parents and other...more
Why would your spouse be leading a double life when everything seems to be great between you two? Or maybe it is not as great as you suspect. For whatever reasons, your spouse just does not seem the same as they used to be and this...more
Infidelity causes so much pain and heartache in a marriage and you know this because your heart is broken in pieces right now. You have this sinking feeling that your spouse is being unfaithful in your marriage and it is driving you...more
Do you think that you spouse had affair with coworker? Are you having hunches that your partner might be cheating on you with someone from his work place? Are getting more and more paranoid each day as you wonder about this probability?...more
If a person asked me what she should do because her spouse had affair with colleague I can only think of three things to do. First would be to check if affair issue is actually true. No one wants to be hysterical over something which...more
A lot of the time, when women last but not least determine to stroll out of a partnership, it is with finality. A guy, even so, can take his probability and attempt to modify this specifically if they are married. The query "What can i...more
A lot of the time, when women eventually decide to stroll out of a partnership, it is with finality. A guy, nevertheless, can take his probability and attempt to modify this especially if they're married. The query "What am i able to do...more