Like many cities around the country, divorce rates in Georgia continue to climb. It is a fact that people can fall in and out of love but what happens if one party is at fault? It is embarrassing to go snooping around on your significant other. It is even worse to jump to conclusions and accuse them of something without the evidence to back up your claims. It is possible that you are misreading the signs and your loved one is...more
By Susie and Otto CollinsHeidi and Ted have been married for almost 10 years now. They live bustling, busy and mostly happy lives together with their three young children. When Heidi is driving their oldest child to and from music lessons, Ted is often coaching their younger two who are sports teams.In between all of the driving and coaching, Heidi and Ted try to keep up with the house, their jobs and their physical fitness. Every...more
I love birthdays--I always have. I am the total stranger at the mall that overhears someone saying something about their upcoming birthday that bursts out, "Oh my gosh, happy BIRTHDAY!" Now that I am married, I make every effort to make my spouse's special day unforgettable. This year, he turned 25, and it was the best birthday to date.The only trouble is that he is always tremendously difficult to surprise. But that doesn't mean I couldn't pull off a few tricks this year to make him feel loved as we celebrated his big day. If you need some help planning for your spouse's milestone birthday--or any birthday, for that matter--then listen up!Try to budget in advance for a big event. Being able to pay for a getaway as a couple can help your beloved escape the stresses that automatically come with being at home--dirty dishes, laundry, calls from the office--you know what I mean.You don't have to go far. One of my favorite cities in which to stay is just a forty minute drive from my house, so when my husband plans mini-vacations there, I am thrilled, and it doesn't require the intense planning that a full-blown escape would.But if that is just not a possibility, then you need to...more
It is often said that marriage cannot survive after a spouse has cheated. We always assume that working things out will lead to frustration and doubts. In the middle of all the mixed emotions that come into place, we feel desperate and hopeless and often caught between anger and guilt.After the shock of realizing a spouse has...more
troubled marriages chat rooms marriage and couples counseling free marriage counseling online'Does marriage counseling work in case of an affair?' While the question can be answered in many words the simple answer is simply yes it does. What is important is for both partners to show determination in resolving the issue and restore...more
Upon discovery of a cheating spouse, one of the most difficult things to do is control your negative thoughts after spouse infidelity to survive the affair. In fact, what you've probably found most often is that your thoughts seem to be more in control of you than you are of them.Have you struggled to find a way to turn that scenario around? Are you desperate to stop that negative thought loop in order to gain some semblance of sanity? Are you beginning to wonder if you'll ever be able to get those negative thoughts out of your head?Well I have some good news. While stopping the negative thoughts and gaining control of what's going on in your mind may be a challenge, it can done. Here are some tips about how to control your thoughts after spouse infidelity in order to survive the affair.First, it's important to understand that you are not alone in this darkness of negative thoughts. It is one of the most common occurrences for the unsuspecting husband or wife who discovers they have a cheating spouse. And though you may question whether you've simply gone crazy, I can assure you that's not the case. The thoughts going on in your mind are normal. ...more
If you suspect or know for sure that your spouse is having an emotional affair, there will be certain emotions such as guilt, hurt, anger and sadness that you will be experiencing. You may even start to wonder if the relationship has gone from just...more
Are the changes you see in your spouse signs of cheating? We all want to believe that our relationship is free of deceit and lies; that a cheating spouse is what happens to other people. Unfortunately, it might be your spouse that is...more
I get a lot of correspondence from people who are concerned that their spouse's excessive texting might mean that spouse is cheating. People often ask things like "should I know who my spouse is texting?" Or "if my spouse is secretive...more
Virgus50- How To Catch A Cheating SpouseIf you think that your spouse is cheating on you there is no worse feeling or greater pain. The thought of your spouse doing things behind your back, maybe even lying to you, or worst, having an...more
Concerned your spouse is having a secret affair? Want to find a way to secretly track your cheating spouse? In the market for spy software to get the evidence you need? Regardless of your reason for wanting to look into...more
If you are worried that your spouse might be having a secret affair, here are 5 signs to look out for. Although there are countless more warning signs, these are the most common. 1) They are flirting more with the opposite sex: If your...more