10 Steps To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back When She Has Moved On

Every girl wants a guy who can understand and connect with her but there are rules

for pursuing a girl after a break up and Ill explain what they are in this article and how they can open the door for getting back together.

If you want to get your ex girlfriend back when she has moved on, the following 10 techniques will get her attention again.

1.) Do not be afraid to call her.

As soon as you call her try to keep control of the conversation by sounding vague and mysterious. Let her know that youve been thinking about her but that youre also busy living your life. If she thinks that youre over her shell be a little more willing to contact you and keep the lines of communication open.

Also when you talk to her, dont do it five times a day. Keep it to once or twice a week maximum. If you call her too much too often shell think youre desperate and needy and thats not a quality that a woman wants. Instead, keep your phone calls short and sweet. The less you say about yourself and what youve been doing the better.

2.) Contact her via email.

Its OK to send her an email, especially if the breakup wasnt amicable. It could be that you dont want to hear her voice right now and thats OK, I understand, and so the next best thing is to send an email.

The advantage to doing this over a text message or a Facebook wall post is that an email gives you the writing space you need to pour your heart out if you need to. So take advantage of technology and send her a quick note letter her know what youve been up to.

3.) Its totally fine to date other women

After the breakup because chances are shell be doing the same thing as well. But I want to caution you here, dont take dating other too seriously at this point.

Dating others and getting out and having a good time will do you good after the breakup by keeping your mind off her and raising your spirits if youre depressed. So get out there and get a life and keep an open mind.

4.) Remember her birthday.

Holidays are a great excuse to get in touch with your ex and you cant do better than a birthday because you can personalize the gift.

Everyone likes to be remembered on their birthday. So take the time and treat your ex a princess.

5.) Analyze her.

Do you really know what she wants or is looking for in a man? She wants a man who wants her for who she is, so pay attention to what she says and does when she talks.

If you didnt pay attention to her before when you were dating, do it now. You need to understand your ex now more than ever before.

6.) Avoid Jealousy.

One of the things that turns women off the most is jealous boyfriends or ex boyfriends. Youve broken up and so you dont have any claim to her, what she does or who she sees.

So if you find that youre getting jealous of your ex, do something to take your mind off her. Go out with friends and get a life. Do things that make you happy so youre not obsessing over what shes doing right now.

Remember she is your ex. And getting back together with her means that you need to avoid this and accept the breakup for what it is.

7.) Be Nice.

How does she talk about you when shes with other people? Does your ex girlfriend talk nicely about you when shes discussing your relationship with others?

Did you give her any reason not to?

I know neither of you were perfect in the relationship, but this is a great indication as to how she really feels about you as a person. Try and find out what shes saying about you and take it as constructive criticism. Imagine how much better youll be if you can take some of your weaknesses and turn them into strengths.

8.) Dont play mind games.

Its really easy to play mind games with someone youve broken up with. But this wont do you any good when it comes to getting her back. Do you think its going to help you get her back if you play mind games with her?

My advice to you is to stay away from playing any and all mind games during your breakup. If shes playing them with you, ignore them and focus on whats really important her.

9.) Try not to give up control during the breakup.

Is your ex girlfriend chasing you after the breakup? If so, dont reveal your cards and dont overplay your hand. Even though you can have her back whenever you want because shes after you its important to try and maintain control over the space you have so you can dictate what happens next.

Relationships are difficult and complex at the best of times. And when youre together, you want to keep the communication open between you two, but when youre apart you need to try and appear mysterious and more complex.

During your reconciliation with your ex girlfriend, dont ever tell her you love her unless youre absolutely certain she loves you back, because if you tell her but she doesnt feel the same way about you yet, then youve played your best card and thats something you cant get back

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10.) Become physically and intellectually attractive to her.

Even though its not the most important thing on your ex girlfriends checklist, you should try to stay in shape or get back in shape if needed so that you look like youre trying.

Also you should look at diversifying your interests to become more intellectually appealing to her as well. Not only do women want someone who takes care of themselves physically but they also want someone whos got some brains.

by: Kurt Foulks

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