Loving someone is good but to some extent. You can only love someone who is single and who has not committed to anyone. It only means you should not be tied up with men who are married and who have families.
Are you the other woman? No women ever wished to be in such situation. If you are willing to stop it, better do it now. This article may help you as it provides three helpful tips:
1. Stop the communication - When you want to stop being the other woman, stop the communication immediately. Try to move away in every circumstance. Try to avoid him. Try to reject all his calls, emails and text messages. Try to change your mobile number if you have to. Never be tempted to read his emails and text messages. Always be firm with your decision to stop the affair.
2. Put yourself into the wife's shoes - Putting yourself into the wife's shoes is the best way to make you stop with the affair. If you are a wife, and you know that your husband has another woman, would it be alright with you? The best thing to do is to try to stop it because you are hurting someone and you know how much pain it would cost if you are the wife.
3. Think about yourself and your future - Always try to think of yourself first. Are you willing to settle for just being the second or third priority? Remember you are just the other woman. You only receive second attention or lesser attention from him. You will only receive little time from him. You always keep on hiding from all the people around you. There are still many opportunities that are waiting for you by not just being the other woman. So learn to stop it now!
Being the other woman can be hard, but it is harder if this affair continues. If you really love the committed man, learn to let go and lead him to the right path. You can always be happy with someone who is not committed to another woman. Let go and choose what is right!