Are there any Sure Signs My Ex Wants a Second Chance?
Are there any Sure Signs My Ex Wants a Second Chance
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Wouldn't it be great if every relationship got at least one major mulligan. Golfers know that mulligans are shots you can "do over" and pretend the shot before it never happened. That way when a major fight that had one or both of you heading for the door happened you could completely undo that fight and the resulting breakup. The thing is that sometimes these breakups become major wakeup calls in the relationship and show each of you just how much you stand to lose if you don't find a way to work things out. In other words, sometimes these fights do a lot more good for your relationship than harm in the long run.
One of the best things that can happen after you've gone your separate ways is that your ex will wake up one day a week or even a month down the road and realize just how extraordinary you really are. In fact, your ex may completely change his or her mind about leaving altogether. Your ex may decide that the only good answer is to do whatever it takes to make your relationship work. Sometimes this happens and your ex starts hinting around that he or she is looking for a second chance.
Want to know some of the sure signs that your ex wants a second chance?
1) Your ex suddenly starts finding more and more excuses to be in the places where you can generally be found. If you find that your bumping into your ex a lot more than is normal then your ex is probably trying to work up the nerve to say something important to you or hoping that you'll be the one to broach the issue of second chances. If you want to get your ex back this is the perfect opportunity to just go with it.
2) Your ex calls your phone a lot but doesn't leave messages on voicemail or hangs up before you have the chance to answer. This is another sign that your ex is trying to find the right words to say to make things right between the two of you and get that important second chance.
3) Your ex has started sending you text messages, emails, or other messages with greater frequency. The more your ex creates opportunities to communicate with you, the greater the odds are that getting back together is on his or her mind.
