Attraction Sometimes Needs A Little Help Before It Happens

Being like most guys, you've probably been under the impression that attraction either

just happens or it doesn't and there isn't much that you can do to try and make it happen. I used to be one of those guys who just accepted the idea that either a woman was attracted to me or she wasn't and that there was nothing that I could do to change that. Being passive about attraction doesn't really produce the greatest results, though, does it? It doesn't feel great to feel as though you have to wait for serendipity to kind of kick in. Fate can be fickle and if all you are doing is relying on fate alone, you might be waiting a long time.

There are some things that you can do that will change all of that for you and that is what I had to learn myself. I had to figure out that you really can give attraction a little bit of a push, so that you can lay eyes on that woman you like and have confidence that you might be able to make her like you back. That is a good feeling to have. It makes you feel like you don't have to be resigned to just waiting around for things to happen.

Here are some of the things that you can do that will help you if you want to help give attraction a little help, especially if you already know of a woman you like:

1) Getting to know her is one thing, flirting with her while you are getting to know her is another.

Just trying to make conversation with a woman and get to know her doesn't always produce that great of a result. For a lot of guys, that getting to know her stage ends up being the stage where they unknowingly are putting themselves in the friend zone. The one way that you can make sure that you don't get stuck in that friend zone is to do a little more than just get to know her. Flirt with her as well. You want to make it abundantly clear that you are not just trying to make friends.

2) To really make something happen, you need to be free from most of your inhibitions.

I wouldn't want to say that you should have no inhibitions at all. Sometimes it can be good to be a little bit more on the reserved side, depending on circumstances. On the other hand, you certainly can have too many inhibitions and that can be a bad thing. Being too cautious about approaching a woman is one example where it can be a bad thing. As a guy, it's one of the things that you need to learn to do, so being cautious can be a bad thing if it keeps you from approaching a woman.

3) A really good way to give attraction a little help is to be aware of the things that she is attracted to.

It can be easy to observe what a woman is really attracted to, if you are able to really get her to open up and talk to you. One of the ways that you can make that happen is to show her that you are genuine and can listen. Another good way to get a woman to open up to you is if you open up about yourself first. That gives her the feeling that you are not just trying to pry for any information, you are really trying to establish a bond of some kind with her.

by: A.J. Smith

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