Being Dumped, Get Over It!
Being Dumped, Get Over It!
Being Dumped, Get Over It!OK so you're being dumped...get over it and remember the words of Gloria Gayner "You will Survive." Actually it's " I Will Survive" but I'm not the one being dumped.
Sorry, blunt I know and I'm not trying to make light of your pain. You're broken hearted and hurts like HE double L, but hey it's not the end of the world although you think its the end of yours.
Yes it's hard and your wondering how can you still love someone with all the little pieces of what's left of your heart. But it will heal (true love is the best super glue) and yes there is someone else out there for you. "As one door closes another one opens" as they say so maybe it's time for you to look behind door #2.
Sometimes after being dumped there is no getting them back even though right now that's all you want. You will beg, plead, give your right arm, a leg, your first born... whatever it takes just as long as they take you back.
OK you gave that a shot and it didn't work so time to move on. And here's why you should sooner than later.
See the funny thing about being dumped is it can be a very good thing! An opportunity has presented itself and now is the time to take advantage of it.
Now you may be asking "What opportunity all I see is misery and despair!" I guess that's one of the reasons they say love is blind.
The opportunity is you now have the freedom to explore new options. Nothing holding you back you can look behind door #2, 3 or 4 even 5. Get the picture?
Time to get out in the world again see whats going on. Probably been awhile since you have been out here. Big beautiful place with lot's of beautiful people and one in particular who is looking for you. But they may not find you.... unless your out where you can be seen!
So you're being dumped, get over it. Could be the best thing that ever happened to you!
Could also be the best thing to help you save your current relationship!
"What? How is me getting dumped going to help?"
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Could be a little time apart maybe exactly what you need to save you relationship. The time apart may help your ex see what they wanted was right there in front of them the whole time.
Love is complicated and not easy to understand at times. Love can hit bumps in the road that seem so big they are going to tear you relationship apart. Sometimes they do and the relationship can't be repaired. But just because you're being dumped does not mean your relationship is completely over.If you wantto know how to get your ex backlearnThe Magic of Making Up system.