Chasing Your Ex Girlfriend - Wanting Her Too Much Can Drive Her Away

It's not really that uncommon to feel like you are chasing after your ex girlfriend

when you are trying to see if there is some way that you can drive her back into your arms. And after you do all of that chasing, it can feel like you really didn't get that far at all, if you are unable to produce the effects that you are trying to produce. That can leave you wondering what's really going on. It can also make you feel like you kind of want your ex girlfriend a little too much and that is definitely not going to be a good thing.

Let me explain why:

Chasing inevitably puts you in the position of trying to qualify for her. That is not a position that is going to give you any feeling of power whatsoever, so it is always going to make you feel a little insecure. Insecurity is a turn off to most women, even if they say that it's not, so you basically end up acting in such a way that you end up turning off the one woman that you want to turn on.

There has to be a better way and there is...

It's not about chasing after her. It's more about pursuing her with the intention of bringing her back, and even though that may sound like the same thing, it's really not. When you are pursuing, you don't have to really be chasing. You could instead be doing certain things that are going to make her want to get back together with you.

So, how do you do that?

Part of that comes from acting aloof with your ex girlfriend from time to time. You don't want to act too aloof with your ex girlfriend, because that can make it seem like you want nothing to do with her at all. However, you don't want to be so eager that you are literally chasing after her, either. That's why a little bit of aloofness is a good thing. It keeps her on her toes without giving her the impression that you are totally over her or that you want nothing to do with her.

Most guys will chase their ex girlfriend instead of pursue her. They will be too afraid to act aloof with their ex girlfriend and they will not end up back with the woman that they want to be with. If you want to get a different result than most guys, you have to be willing to do the things that they won't do. You have to pursue instead of chase and you have to act aloof when the time is right to do so.

by: Chris Tyler

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