Dating Relationship - Are They The One?

"Love is a many-splendored thing; it's the April rose that only grows in early spring"

. Sounds pretty corny right? You would never know by today's standards that this was a hit song for several years. Corny or not that is how love can affect the most hard core individuals among us. And the top way to discover more regarding your April rose is through dating.

Simply put you've always wondered if your partner meets your needs. Unless both of you have decided on another course for your relationship, dating can be quite a great indicator whether you want to share your life with your lover and vice versa. No it cannot guarantee 100 % compatibility, probably because no such thing really exists. As the great jazz trumpeter Miles Davis once said, "If you agree with everything I say and do, then you must be me." You know many couples are at the extreme opposites in relation to desires and demands, yet the Masai have a happy relationship that endures. Nobody goes into a serious commitment expecting to break up after a month.

If you need to know if this person is THE ONE, then you must ask yourself the following: "how you may not feel?"

It is so easy for our emotions to get carried away from the tidal wave of romance. Everything feels great; everything your partner says and does is just wonderful. Not! And once the water recedes, you are stuck with someone whom you suddenly realize annoys the daylights out of you. Don't be afraid to place your emotions aside and do some cold hard evaluation.

Is there something they do or a habit they have that sets your teeth on edge when anybody else does it? Can you live with it? Among the many mistakes people make in dating is the belief that these idiosyncrasies do not matter because they can mold your lover to become EXACTLY what they desire. Generally that is simply a pipe dream. Besides that, you may not want to carry out changing the person that you say you're in love with? Should you have done an honest assessment and came to the conclusion you can accept your partner, warts and all, then do it.

And what about your partner? Is the next step something that irritates them? How do they handle it? Even if they wrap their criticism in gentle humor, it still means they are registering their disapproval. It's likely that when you're getting married that criticism will be less kind. Are you okay with that? It is some things to criticize every now and then but constant disparagement is rough. This is a way to control your partner by keeping them on the defensive and sowing the seeds of self-doubt. If you and your partner is on this path, then both of you will be unpleasantly surprised at the outcome.

We're not perfect. Everybody has their negative and positive points so the question you'll want to ask yourself is can the both of you live with it? That means accepting each other without imposing conditions or expecting change (as everyone knows change has to come from within). If after the evaluation stage is over, the answer remains a strong and committed yes, then do it now and enjoy your own many-splendored thing.

by: Dicky Rejaka

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