Dealing with Cheating – How Not Communicating Can Be Destructive

Dealing with Cheating How Not Communicating Can Be Destructive

You have your suspicions that something is wrong. Late nights at the office, text messages after work hours and that little voice inside your head telling you that all is not right with the world.

You may have been dealing with these feelings for weeks or even months but somehow you have managed to push them to the back of your mind again, fearful that once your suspicions are confirmed your perfect life will come crashing down around you and you will have to think about dealing with cheating.

You watch for the little things all the while praying that you won't see them. Eventually you are going to have to stop burying your head in the sand and start dealing with cheating, because this thing, is actually destroying your soul and the person you have become, in the fear of losing the man you think he is, is someone you don't even recognize anymore.

You watch for the little things all the while praying that you won't see them. Eventually you are going to have to stop burying your head in the sand because this "thing" is actually destroying your soul and the person you have become, in the fear of losing the man you think he is, is someone you don't even recognize anymore.

If you suspect your partner is cheating you would probably prefer to ignore your intuition and just hope that you are wrong. This is a common response because the confrontation and possible end to your relationship is just too much to bear.

The problem with doing this, is that you will gradually becoming more and more stressed and this affects how you function as an individual. Without being aware of what is happening you will become consumed with the "what if's and "I think's". It is understandable that you may not want to know what is going on but for the sake of your own sanity, you really need to take that step and put your mind at ease.

You could be wrong! There could be a very good explanation for everything that has been going on and if that is the case then you will have been torturing yourself unnecessarily.

If you are afraid that you will upset your partner by confronting him with your suspicions then you need to sit down with him and calmly point out the issues that have caused you to become suspicious.

If he is made to see that his actions have been upsetting you he will want to help to make you feel better.

Most misunderstandings can be resolved through simple communication.

If you are right though, finding out that your partner has been unfaithful can have a devastating impact on you and this is often the main reason we choose ignorance over confrontation. Although it may seem like the best thing to do, eventually you will come to realise that the relationship you think you are protecting has already ended and your ignorance cannot restore the balance.

You need to confront your partner and get all the cards on the table. This may make life very stressful for a while but in the long run, you will be glad you found out. Life could not have gone on that way indefinitely.

Discovering that your partner has been cheating on you is devastating. Especially when you have been lead to believe that your life together is perfect and he is Mr Wonderful. But living a lie and telling yourself that you are imagining the little things will just destroy you as a person as you become more and more obsessed with watching for the signs.

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