Do What You Can To Prevent Your Relationship From Failing
When every relationship begins it is exciting and full of energy
. Both of the individuals try to please each other and make a big attempt to do so. At some point, typically about a month to one year into the relationship, the couple will begin to get at ease with each other. Regrettably it is at this point that many relationships under go a break up.
When a couple reaches this point in their relationship one or both of the couple may start to interpret their partner's actions incorrectly. There most likely is nothing going on that is a problem but it can be seen that way to some. Most women's actions will be to cling closer to their man with the thought of being able to see more of them and to be reassured he is not going to leave her.
When this action occurs then the boyfriend will see this as being needy or getting desperate and they start to pull away from the girlfriend. When their once fun loving and happy girlfriend that they fell in love with starts to get this way they can feel as though they have a stranger by their side.
If this has already caused a break up in a relationship then the woman can use this time to herself to regain her confidence in herself. Spend time with your friends and enjoy yourself and understand that you do not need your ex to make you be able to enjoy these things.
Once you have regained your confidence and are back on track you might feel you want to try to get your ex back. Call your ex and ask if he would be willing to meet with you for coffee. This can give him a chance of seeing the new you and hopefully he will see the girl he remembers when the two of you first met. Use this first meeting to get your foot back in the door, don't push the issue of getting back together, only introduce the idea to him.
Do What You Can To Prevent Your Relationship From Failing