Emotional Affairs In Marriage - Reclaiming Your Place in the Marriage

There are some individuals whom believe, emotional affairs in marriage provides an outlet for couples who at the time are having marital problems

. The odds of this type of affair not developing into something more are slim to none. In my research I have yet to find any benefit of an emotional affair.

It's important to recognize when a relationship is becoming an emotionally attached one. The sooner the affair can be ended the easier it will be to reclaim your rightful place as the most important person in your spouses life.

Signs Of An Emotional Affair

If your spouse is less than forthcoming about a friendship or co-worker he or she seems to spend a lot of time with (in person, on the phone or messaging) then it's something to keep an eye on.

Your spouse seems to be sharing things with another person that would be more appropriate to share with you. No one outside of your home should know more about your spouse or what's going on in your home or lives then you.

If your spouse begins to rearrange his or her schedule to accommodate conversations or meetings with a particular person keep one eye open.

If your spouse has become protective or defensive about his or her cell phone messages or email messages be on guard. Many emotional affairs in marriage start out with complimentary messages that grow into flirtatious ones.

What Happens Next

Well emotional affairs in marriage don't continue forever so it's most likely either going to end or turn into a physical affair. Most people involved in an emotional affair didn't start out looking for one. For some reason there may have been a need unfulfilled and the other person was able to meet that need. Your job is to fill whatever was missing and end the affair now.

Reclaiming Your Place In The Marriage

Ok, no one knows your spouse better than you so it shouldn't be that difficult to figure out what emotional needs you need to start meeting. I'm not pointing a finger at you and saying that you are failing at meeting your spouses' need. It doesn't matter why your spouse felt the need to get emotionally attached to someone else.

Take a little time and come up with what's not going right in your marriage. Is it the way you treat each other or communicate? Is the intimacy not the same as it used to be? Be honest with yourself and search your own heart. Are you slightly unhappy and if so what will make you more fulfilled. Probably what's missing for you is also what's missing for your spouse and created the environment for the affair in your marriage.

Please remember that emotional affairs in marriage can easily escalate into something else. You need to work on breaking the affair sooner rather than later and turn your marriage around.

It's scary to think about what might happen next. If you need some guidance on ways you can improve your marriage and end the emotional affair, please visit here, Saving Your Marriage Today and restore your marriage.

Emotional Affairs In Marriage - Reclaiming Your Place in the Marriage

By: D P Haynes

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